QUESTIONS LADIES...

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Posted by Soon2BMrsD

OMG i dont think i know 400+ people.. you inviting all your neighborhood?

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Umm...lol the neighborhood is kinda my whole family! It's alot of us lol! And FH family is HUGE too! my family (immediate) is like 200ppl and his is 200ppl and the + are our friends! lol!

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Posted by Soon2BMrsD

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Ahhh...Thanks!!

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Posted by TheFutureMrsD

You can give her the poem, just tell her you feel that cash is so impersonal!

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I mean I can personalize it to her!! lol! She doesnt have to accept it!

omg toni.. thats crazy!!!! i give u so much credit i would not want to see the total bill in the end!

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Posted by MillerFord742008

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Posted by TheFutureMrsD

You can give her the poem, just tell her you feel that cash is so impersonal!

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I mean I can personalize it to her!! lol! She doesnt have to accept it!

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Posted by Soon2BMrsD

omg toni.. thats crazy!!!! i give u so much credit i would not want to see the total bill in the end!

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Thats why FH and I are paying for it. IMAGINE how someone will hang that TABS over our heads!

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Posted by Soon2BMrsD

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Posted by MillerFord742008

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Posted by TheFutureMrsD

You can give her the poem, just tell her you feel that cash is so impersonal!

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I mean I can personalize it to her!! lol! She doesnt have to accept it!

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basically its like anything else you would tip for 15 - 20% is what is acceptable so a standard amount isnt really fair
the bigger the party, the bigger the bill, the bigger the tip

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Posted by tara08

I think and don't quote me that you do tip your Matre De (my spelling stinks) and your bridal attendants if you have any. I am totally under the impression that you do not tip your banquet manager.... But i suppose if you wanted too you could.

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I think the gratuities in your catering bill goes to the BM.

See if I were to go to a RH where I'm not bringing in my own caterer I would not mind feeding the DJ and Photographer and stuff. But I am leaning towards bringing in my own catering staff and they can eat but it just better not effect there work! lol!

Getting all sleepy afterwards

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Posted by blu6385

at CLM where i'm gettng married we have an automatic Matrie D charge of $300 does this mean i still gotta give more???

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hmmm i never heard of such a charge so maybe thats like a pre included tip.. I dont know??

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Posted by blu6385

at CLM where i'm gettng married we have an automatic Matrie D charge of $300 does this mean i still gotta give more???

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In my opinion HELL NO! Not if she comes with an automatic charge!

1 - I have never heard of an automatic charge - i guess you could give more if you wanted to
2 - Feeding the vendors is nothing new, it has always been considered the right thing
3 - Yes, i do believe the gratuities in the RH bill go to BM (not all but some)

I know, it adds up like crazy!!!

ETA - Like I posted earlier, you tip all services 15 - 20%, or what you feel appropriate so the bigger the party, the bigger the bill, the bigger the tip (FOR the wait staff) vendors are usually a flat amount per performer or service

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Posted by Snowflake08

1 - I have never heard of an automatic charge - i guess you could give more if you wanted to
2 - Feeding the vendors is nothing new, it has always been considered the right thing
3 - Yes, i do believe the gratuities in the RH bill go to BM (not all but some)

I know, it adds up like crazy!!!

ETA - Like I posted earlier, you tip all services 15 - 20%, or what you feel appropriate so the bigger the party, the bigger the bill, the bigger the tip (FOR the wait staff) vendors are usually a flat amount per performer or service

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Yes thas true...its the price for the best day of your life