i notced ALOT of ppl said 'it depends on what it is'... then arent you NOT VERY open-minded?! being open minded to some things and not others doesn make you NOT open mided... but maybe not as much as you think
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You said you're extremely open minded, but your reply to the porn question kind of says otherwise. I think most people consider themselves open minded, but we all have things that we are definitely more judgemental about than others. I consider myself openminded, but I know there are certain things I'm very stuck in my way over. I think everyone is probably like that.
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good point!!! im open minded to porn as long as im included! i just feel insecure when/if he was to watch by himself.... ya know.... but i dont hate porn... but you make a very good point!
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Posted by lolita4life
i notced ALOT of ppl said 'it depends on what it is'... then arent you NOT VERY open-minded?! being open minded to some things and not others doesn make you NOT open mided... but maybe not as much as you think
i disagree...
What is YOUR definition of open-mindedness?
and i agree with the above poster...if you are against your FH watching porn without you...well that doesn't sound very open-minded...in fact it sounds like your open-mindedness is conditional...hence depends on the TOPIC!!!
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To put it frankly.. I can be a tool. LMAO JK I have to investigate before anything.
Just to cover my a$$... LOL
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Posted by nferrandi
You said you're extremely open minded, but your reply to the porn question kind of says otherwise. I think most people consider themselves open minded, but we all have things that we are definitely more judgemental about than others. I consider myself openminded, but I know there are certain things I'm very stuck in my way over. I think everyone is probably like that.
i agree! happy holidays ya'll!
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Posted by oct.2004bride
Posted by lolita4life
i notced ALOT of ppl said 'it depends on what it is'... then arent you NOT VERY open-minded?! being open minded to some things and not others doesn make you NOT open mided... but maybe not as much as you think
i disagree...
What is YOUR definition of open-mindedness?
and i agree with the above poster...if you are against your FH watching porn without you...well that doesn't sound very open-minded...in fact it sounds like your open-mindedness is conditional...hence depends on the TOPIC!!!
i totally agree with you, too
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I am open-minded to how others wish to lead their lives and am the biggest supporter for them. However, when it comes to my life, I have my wants, dreams and opinions and I can be very hard headed at times. Although I am easy to discuss things with and can be rational, I admit, there are times I need to refect on situations and absorb everything involved. I think it is okay to be open minded about certain things while not being so open minded about others. Most people want to protect themselves and those they love and in those instances, they may not come across as open minded
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Posted by Dooodles
I am open-minded to how others wish to lead their lives and am the biggest supporter for them. However, when it comes to my life, I have my wants, dreams and opinions and I can be very hard headed at times. Although I am easy to discuss things with and can be rational, I admit, there are times I need to refect on situations and absorb everything involved. I think it is okay to be open minded about certain things while not being so open minded about others. Most people want to protect themselves and those they love and in those instances, they may not come across as open minded
Ditto
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Posted by neeniebean86
Posted by Dooodles
I am open-minded to how others wish to lead their lives and am the biggest supporter for them. However, when it comes to my life, I have my wants, dreams and opinions and I can be very hard headed at times. Although I am easy to discuss things with and can be rational, I admit, there are times I need to refect on situations and absorb everything involved. I think it is okay to be open minded about certain things while not being so open minded about others. Most people want to protect themselves and those they love and in those instances, they may not come across as open minded