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I am eating in the faculty room today and this lady was like 'So how is your weight loss going' now she was nice about it but the thing is I have never discussed this with her or really with anyone that I work with! I dont really like talking about it at work because then people scrutinize what your eating and I am sensitive about it....I was stunned so I was just like oh I am trying and she said yes I can see that! What is that supposed to me??
OMG, people are so nervy! Maybe she didn't mean anything by it and was trying to be supportive, but it's still kind of strange. What were you eating? If it was like a salad, then maybe she was tyring to be encouraging. If it was something not so good, I would have slapped her silly.
Posted by beautyq115
I am eating in the faculty room today and this lady was like 'So how is your weight loss going' now she was nice about it but the thing is I have never discussed this with her or really with anyone that I work with! I dont really like talking about it at work because then people scrutinize what your eating and I am sensitive about it....I was stunned so I was just like oh I am trying and she said yes I can see that! What is that supposed to me??
Posted by cmastro25OMG, people are so nervy! Maybe she didn't mean anything by it and was trying to be supportive, but it's still kind of strange. What were you eating? If it was like a salad, then maybe she was tyring to be encouraging. If it was something not so good, I would have slapped her silly.
Posted by beautyq115
I am eating in the faculty room today and this lady was like 'So how is your weight loss going' now she was nice about it but the thing is I have never discussed this with her or really with anyone that I work with! I dont really like talking about it at work because then people scrutinize what your eating and I am sensitive about it....I was stunned so I was just like oh I am trying and she said yes I can see that! What is that supposed to me??![]()
sometimes people should just shut up how dare she ask you about somehting like that when you dont even talk to her People have some nerve!!!
Posted by STBH
sometimes people should just shut up how dare she ask you about somehting like that when you dont even talk to her People have some nerve!!!
Don't let her upset you. Maybe she said it because she noticed you were losing weight. It could have been her way of giving you a compliment. I know sometimes people say things without even thinking!
Posted by MattsBride
Don't let her upset you. Maybe she said it because she noticed you were losing weight. It could have been her way of giving you a compliment. I know sometimes people say things without even thinking!
I think what January Bride said is true. People just assume that all brides are on a diet for the wedding. I think that 'I see that' comment was meant well since you were eating something really healthy. It's just weird that she would assume you are trying to lose weight. Don't feel bad about it. People say the dumbest things to me all the time. You just have to let it roll in one ear and out the other.
Posted by MattsBride
Don't let her upset you. Maybe she said it because she noticed you were losing weight. It could have been her way of giving you a compliment. I know sometimes people say things without even thinking!
Posted by cmastro25
I think what January Bride said is true. People just assume that all brides are on a diet for the wedding. I think that 'I see that' comment was meant well since you were eating something really healthy. It's just weird that she would assume you are trying to lose weight. Don't feel bad about it. People say the dumbest things to me all the time. You just have to let it roll in one ear and out the other.
Posted by JanuaryBride06
I wouldn't take it personally. Everyone thinks that future brides are only focused on losing weight for the big day.
And it's SO annoying that people have to insert both feet into their mouths - leave it to a co-worker to do that.
But PLEASE, don't take it personally!!
Posted by Goldi1021
Posted by JanuaryBride06
I wouldn't take it personally. Everyone thinks that future brides are only focused on losing weight for the big day.
And it's SO annoying that people have to insert both feet into their mouths - leave it to a co-worker to do that.
But PLEASE, don't take it personally!!
I would agree. People had tons to say at work when I cut my hair - like I committed a mortal sin. Why do people take so much interest in other people?
Posted by beautyq115
Sorry to go on and on about this ladies...weight is such a sensitive topic for me and its something I get upset about![]()
Posted by JanuaryBride06
Posted by beautyq115
Sorry to go on and on about this ladies...weight is such a sensitive topic for me and its something I get upset about![]()
No, we all get sensitive about this! Don't apologize![]()
That is weird! I dunno. Maybe the other girls are right, that's she's noticed you losing weight and maybe she's seen you eat and decided to guess that you were dieting. At any rate, it's still nervy, unless she's a close friend of yours, and it doesn't sound like she is.
Posted by beautyq115
Posted by cmastro25
I think what January Bride said is true. People just assume that all brides are on a diet for the wedding. I think that 'I see that' comment was meant well since you were eating something really healthy. It's just weird that she would assume you are trying to lose weight. Don't feel bad about it. People say the dumbest things to me all the time. You just have to let it roll in one ear and out the other.
But she didn't even put 2 and 2 together that I was even getting married! Because I even said yeah I am getting married soon...and she was like oh really?
Posted by Goldi1021
Posted by JanuaryBride06
I wouldn't take it personally. Everyone thinks that future brides are only focused on losing weight for the big day.
And it's SO annoying that people have to insert both feet into their mouths - leave it to a co-worker to do that.
But PLEASE, don't take it personally!!
I would agree. People had tons to say at work when I cut my hair - like I committed a mortal sin. Why do people take so much interest in other people?
Posted by beautyq115
Posted by Goldi1021
Posted by JanuaryBride06
I wouldn't take it personally. Everyone thinks that future brides are only focused on losing weight for the big day.
And it's SO annoying that people have to insert both feet into their mouths - leave it to a co-worker to do that.
But PLEASE, don't take it personally!!
I would agree. People had tons to say at work when I cut my hair - like I committed a mortal sin. Why do people take so much interest in other people?
I really don't know!
Posted by cmastro25That is weird! I dunno. Maybe the other girls are right, that's she's noticed you losing weight and maybe she's seen you eat and decided to guess that you were dieting. At any rate, it's still nervy, unless she's a close friend of yours, and it doesn't sound like she is.
Posted by beautyq115
Posted by cmastro25
I think what January Bride said is true. People just assume that all brides are on a diet for the wedding. I think that 'I see that' comment was meant well since you were eating something really healthy. It's just weird that she would assume you are trying to lose weight. Don't feel bad about it. People say the dumbest things to me all the time. You just have to let it roll in one ear and out the other.
But she didn't even put 2 and 2 together that I was even getting married! Because I even said yeah I am getting married soon...and she was like oh really?
