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Posted by adelz

I'm sooo sorry you're going through all this. Please hang in there, and just say f*ck everyone else. Do what will make you guys happy. If that means it's only you two standing at the alter and no BM's or GM's, then let it be that way. I wish I could tell you what to do, but try to keep your head up high, and realize that in a month, you'll be married, and things hopefully calm down for you. People are so insensitive and selfish --- just take this time to realize who's really there for you and who's not, cut people out if you need to, and just stand by your fiances' side. That's all that matters.

Sending you many many hugs.

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THIS!!!!!

Thanks girls~
I am in awe at all of your kindness.
I'm REALLY upset that my wedding is a nightmare.
I'm trying SO hard to change my attitude but it's been one thing after another after another and each thing seems to get worse.
sigh sigh sigh!!!


<3 you girls!

The only words I have for this - is DISGUSTING, So sorry girlie. You are going through so much and it's totally not fair.

I completely understand where you're coming from. So many things went wrong a few weeks before my wedding. One of my friends, who was in my wedding party and is the best friend a person can ever ask for, sat me down and said, 'No matter how close you are to someone, a wedding always brings out the true colors of those around you. On the day of your wedding, you'll be marrying the man that loves you, wants to be with you, and would never let you down. Just remember that the people that DO come, are those that really matter...and the fact that at the end of the day, you're married, and the only people in the world that matter, are you and your husband, so make sure the two of you have the best time ever and say F*CK YOU to anyone else!'

So I pass along her words of wisdom...the girlies here are always here for you...seat fillers, a shoulder to cry on, an ear to listen, and just for advice and venting....

Let us know if there's anything we can do!!!

I'm so sorry!!!

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Posted by MsRtoMrsK

I completely understand where you're coming from. So many things went wrong a few weeks before my wedding. One of my friends, who was in my wedding party and is the best friend a person can ever ask for, sat me down and said, 'No matter how close you are to someone, a wedding always brings out the true colors of those around you. On the day of your wedding, you'll be marrying the man that loves you, wants to be with you, and would never let you down. Just remember that the people that DO come, are those that really matter...and the fact that at the end of the day, you're married, and the only people in the world that matter, are you and your husband, so make sure the two of you have the best time ever and say F*CK YOU to anyone else!'

So I pass along her words of wisdom...the girlies here are always here for you...seat fillers, a shoulder to cry on, an ear to listen, and just for advice and venting....

Let us know if there's anything we can do!!!

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Sooooooooooo true!!! Great words!!!! Hang in there girlie!

omg I'm sooo sorry u're going through this, this is def not a nice situation. But don't let it get to u, I'm sure u've heard this hundreds of time but it never gets old, the ppl that really counts will be there for ur wedding regardless of anything and that includes ppl from the bridal party and families. DO NOT LET UR WEDDING EXCITEMENT DISAPPEAR, remember the reason why u guys are doing this, for the love u have towards each other and that should be more important than anything else

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Posted by IrishAli

if you need seat fillers, all the ladies here would love to celebrate your love!

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ITA!

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Posted by bebita0830

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Posted by IrishAli

if you need seat fillers, all the ladies here would love to celebrate your love!

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ITA!

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Absolutely!

I know what you mean, when you say it's one thing after another smashing you on the head. Since the ring went on my finger, if I told you everything that happened to me, you would fall off your chair. Family passings, emergency surgeries, bridal party backing out, the list goes on.

I too, had many people decline their invites to our wedding, that shocked me! Even last minute cancellations. As much as it hurts, you can't let it get to you. I became a nervous wreck, and after the wedding, I wish I hadn't. I would do everything all over again, in a heartbeat! My wedding day was everything I could ask for, and worth every ounce of stress I put into it! Yours will be too, I can promise you that!

Many and to you that things get better. Feel free to FM if you need to chat and let it out!

I know it may be seem like you're in a nightmare but things could be alot worse. I have heard worst stories. Trust me.

Forget those people who are not going to the wedding. They are just going to miss a fabulous wedding.

Also, you need to give your SIL a deadline for measurements. Tell her that the tuxedo shop will not accept any more measurements from the bridal party after .....If the measurements aren't in by this date, choose someone else. I had to get two new flower girls and flower gril dresses a couple days before my wedding.

You put a lot of planning into your wedding, don't let these selfish people ruin your moment.

I feel so sorry for you. But I learned also after my wedding that the people that you least expected to come through for you does and the people you expected