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RANT - I HATE MY JOB! - it's long, i'm sorry!

davenjess Posted:

RANT - I HATE MY JOB! - it's long, i'm sorry!

I'm sorry - i just had to get this out - at the moment i want to SCREAM!!!!!!!!

If this were a year ago - i was the happiest person ever to have a job. I had a MAGNIFICENT boss who made me feel appreciated, knew how to use my skills & who just was the best boss EVER!!

Fast forward - he was promoted and has moved to China (he wanted to take me, but they already have someone in my position there). Maybe 4 months before his promotion - we hired another manager and he has now taken over as Director.

He has NO CLUE what i'm capable of, is a MORON. Every single suggestion I make or thing I say, 'well, no'....

We have what's called a discretionary budget this quarter - to spend on a luncheon. It's 25 a head and we only have 25 people here total - if everyone is here. We're a very small satellite office. So - he wants to get some things from a Chinese food place, some from an Indian place, some from an Italian place, etc. I tell him point blank that's a waste - there's a VERY GOOD gourmet deli nearby that does catering and they have all kinds of things and the guys here LOVE the food!

This is my email to him:

After spending some time on the phone yesterday with a few places - this is what I'm going to suggest at the Site Meeting…

The best bang for our buck is going to be to get everything from one place - as they give you a better deal if you do that. A few years ago - we did a whole catered thing from Mi Amore that was a huge success -they bring in the sterno heating things, supply plates, napkins, serving spoons, everything!

Their price is FANTASTIC for what you get. Here's how it works:
We get 4 main course dishes - which are chicken, beef or fish. My suggestions (these can be changed, of course) - Thai chicken(served over dirty rice, a major favorite of the guys here), swedish meatballs, baked flounder & chicken francaise. (I can look up what we ordered last time, but Jerry - as you may remember, little to no food leftover.) We then also get 4 sides - which are a pasta, vegetable or potato. My suggestions, penne ala vodka, vegetable paella, grilled vegetables & vegetable lasagna (again - these can be changed, of course).

On top of that - we then get salad (enough for 25) & bread & butter for all as well.

The price for this amount of food is $25.00 per person.

Here's another thought. If we only did TWO main course dishes & two side dishes - the price is $12.95 per head. If we did it that way - we could have TWO luncheons in one week. I didn't know if that would be too much….we may be better off giving people more options to eat and doing it all on one day instead of trying to get them to do two big lunch breaks in a week.

The reason this is what I'm suggesting is because if we do a few dishes from Palace of Jaipur and a few platters from Stelton Pizza and a few things from a Chinese food place - the price is higher & we won't get nearly as much, because we're not doing BULK food - I hope that makes sense… By sticking with one place that has a bunch of different items we can get more food for a much better price.

The way we did the selections last time is I presented the menu in an email form with voting buttons & the majority won on all cases. I can do the same this time if it's what's agreed upon at the Site Meeting.

Jess

and this is the jerks reply - i know it's not too bad - but trust me - on top of everything else...i'm really angry:
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Thanks for the follow up. This is very helpful. The Mi Amore looks good. However, it is not good for the vegetarian folks and there are many of such in our team. The vegetarian would be side dishes, which will not work. How about Palace of Jaipur and Mi Amore . It is more work, but perhaps doable.
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So moron - do you really think i'm afraid of WORK?????? I HATE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Did he miss the part where i told him we've done this before - when he wasn't here and it was a huge hit??????????????

Sorry for the vent girls - i just hate it here. I thought I could hold out until lafter the wedding/honeymoon - but i'm not sure I can anymore...
AmandaLynn04 Posted:

Re: RANT - I HATE MY JOB! - it's long, i'm sorry!

Make up fake prices, and explain that his options are too expensive!

davenjess Posted:

Re: RANT - I HATE MY JOB! - it's long, i'm sorry!


Posted by AmandaLynn04

Make up fake prices, and explain that his options are too expensive!



He's just such a moron - he wants to get like 3 dishes from one place and 3 dishes from another. Like ANYONE would want to have half a chicken cutlet and half a serving of something from the chinese food place instead of a huge buffet full of choices!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
TrueLoveIn2008 Posted:

Re: RANT - I HATE MY JOB! - it's long, i'm sorry!

Jess .... so sorry ..... it seems like so many of us are going through work issues right now!!! I am so with you and am here if you ever want to vent, chat, cry (I did a lot of that last night) ... whatever!!!

AmandaLynn04 Posted:

Re: RANT - I HATE MY JOB! - it's long, i'm sorry!

He sounds special.

Seriously.

Hey -

I called x place, and they wanted $19.95 per person.

I called x place, and they wanted $15.95 per person.

I guess that won't work.

I'll go ahead and go with my suggestion - I spoke to a few of the guys, and they loved the idea!

We'll discuss the final menu soon!

K, thanks!


Hugs and kisses,

Jess
davenjess Posted:

Re: RANT - I HATE MY JOB! - it's long, i'm sorry!


Posted by AmandaLynn04

He sounds special.

Seriously.

Hey -

I called x place, and they wanted $19.95 per person.

I called x place, and they wanted $15.95 per person.

I guess that won't work.

I'll go ahead and go with my suggestion - I spoke to a few of the guys, and they loved the idea!

We'll discuss the final menu soon!

K, thanks!


Hugs and kisses,

Jess



Ahhh - hugs and kisses.... I'm fully expecting him to come in my office shortly- seriously.

We had an issue recently with the cleaning crew complaining that someone was using the men's room while it was being cleaned BY A WOMAN. I wrote to my boss and said it was disgusting and that something had to be done. A few days later, he and I had a 30 minute meeting because of it - he said that i didn't know what happened, if it happened more than once and i shouldn't have used the word distusting. I was so angry - i almost killed him!
Autumn08 Posted:

Re: RANT - I HATE MY JOB! - it's long, i'm sorry!

I don't understand why he's so set in his ways. He must really like chinese food.

Autumn08 Posted:

Re: RANT - I HATE MY JOB! - it's long, i'm sorry!


Posted by davenjess


Posted by AmandaLynn04

He sounds special.

Seriously.

Hey -

I called x place, and they wanted $19.95 per person.

I called x place, and they wanted $15.95 per person.

I guess that won't work.

I'll go ahead and go with my suggestion - I spoke to a few of the guys, and they loved the idea!

We'll discuss the final menu soon!

K, thanks!


Hugs and kisses,

Jess



Ahhh - hugs and kisses.... I'm fully expecting him to come in my office shortly- seriously.

We had an issue recently with the cleaning crew complaining that someone was using the men's room while it was being cleaned BY A WOMAN. I wrote to my boss and said it was disgusting and that something had to be done. A few days later, he and I had a 30 minute meeting because of it - he said that i didn't know what happened, if it happened more than once and i shouldn't have used the word distusting. I was so angry - i almost killed him!



Is he the boss from office space? If so hid eyour stapler.
AmandaLynn04 Posted:

Re: RANT - I HATE MY JOB! - it's long, i'm sorry!

What, you don't like hugs and kisses?

What about, 'Love and blowjobs?'

Seriously though - he sounds like a complete tool, who has no idea how to do the job he has been hired for. Mayhaps someone higher up will realize this, and then you will be happy again.

Do you keep in contact w/ the old boss? Have you discussed this with him?

Mici n KC Posted:

Re: RANT - I HATE MY JOB! - it's long, i'm sorry!


Posted by davenjess


Posted by AmandaLynn04

Make up fake prices, and explain that his options are too expensive!



He's just such a moron - he wants to get like 3 dishes from one place and 3 dishes from another. Like ANYONE would want to have half a chicken cutlet and half a serving of something from the chinese food place instead of a huge buffet full of choices!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Sound delish---NOT! What an a$$!
davenjess Posted:

Re: RANT - I HATE MY JOB! - it's long, i'm sorry!


Posted by AmandaLynn04

What, you don't like hugs and kisses?

What about, 'Love and blowjobs?'

Seriously though - he sounds like a complete tool, who has no idea how to do the job he has been hired for. Mayhaps someone higher up will realize this, and then you will be happy again.

Do you keep in contact w/ the old boss? Have you discussed this with him?




No - he has NO CLUE how to do this job. I have spoken to HR about him a few times because he and my IT guy argued so badly I thought Chris(IT) was going to walk out. I told them all of my concerns - our other manager is no gem either - he's totally clueless.

I speak to my old manager all the time - i still help him out with stuff. He keeps telling me to try and deal that it can't be as bad as I say it is...but it is. I actually yelled at him at Christmas when he came to my house to see me - I yelled at him for leaving and for leaving me with these 2 idiots.

The Site Meetings we have are fun though - i sit in my little corner seat and watch everyone roll their eyes at him or mock him behind his back...no one respects him at all.
AmandaLynn04 Posted:

Re: RANT - I HATE MY JOB! - it's long, i'm sorry!


Posted by davenjess


Posted by AmandaLynn04

What, you don't like hugs and kisses?

What about, 'Love and blowjobs?'

Seriously though - he sounds like a complete tool, who has no idea how to do the job he has been hired for. Mayhaps someone higher up will realize this, and then you will be happy again.

Do you keep in contact w/ the old boss? Have you discussed this with him?




No - he has NO CLUE how to do this job. I have spoken to HR about him a few times because he and my IT guy argued so badly I thought Chris(IT) was going to walk out. I told them all of my concerns - our other manager is no gem either - he's totally clueless.

I speak to my old manager all the time - i still help him out with stuff. He keeps telling me to try and deal that it can't be as bad as I say it is...but it is. I actually yelled at him at Christmas when he came to my house to see me - I yelled at him for leaving and for leaving me with these 2 idiots.

The Site Meetings we have are fun though - i sit in my little corner seat and watch everyone roll their eyes at him or mock him behind his back...no one respects him at all.




Eventually a higher up will notice. Then you can have a $25 luncheon in honor of his departure!!!
davenjess Posted:

Re: RANT - I HATE MY JOB! - it's long, i'm sorry!


Posted by AmandaLynn04


Posted by davenjess


Posted by AmandaLynn04

What, you don't like hugs and kisses?

What about, 'Love and blowjobs?'

Seriously though - he sounds like a complete tool, who has no idea how to do the job he has been hired for. Mayhaps someone higher up will realize this, and then you will be happy again.

Do you keep in contact w/ the old boss? Have you discussed this with him?




No - he has NO CLUE how to do this job. I have spoken to HR about him a few times because he and my IT guy argued so badly I thought Chris(IT) was going to walk out. I told them all of my concerns - our other manager is no gem either - he's totally clueless.

I speak to my old manager all the time - i still help him out with stuff. He keeps telling me to try and deal that it can't be as bad as I say it is...but it is. I actually yelled at him at Christmas when he came to my house to see me - I yelled at him for leaving and for leaving me with these 2 idiots.

The Site Meetings we have are fun though - i sit in my little corner seat and watch everyone roll their eyes at him or mock him behind his back...no one respects him at all.




Eventually a higher up will notice. Then you can have a $25 luncheon in honor of his departure!!!



Tell me about it!!!!! I can't wait!!!!!!!!!

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