RD Invites

It is coming close to the end of the planning process and I am running low on funds so do you think it is completley inappropriate to send an evite out for the RD? I was talking to a BM and she said just rely on word of mouth, but I just do not trust that.

We are buying a house and paying for a wedding and I just cannot justify spending any more money on unnecessary things. If I were in a BP and I got an evite I would not be offended, but I am not sure how other people feel since I am normally very easy going with etiquette rules and such.

WWYD??

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Posted by GRod2Be

I think a evite is perfectly fine. I'm just going to text whoever i can and call anyone who i can't text.

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Yea i was thinking of throwing a text too

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Posted by geegee827

I honestly wouldn't be offended to receive an e-vite to a RD. If you feel totally uncomfortable, just go to staples or party city, get some cute paper and print them up yourself.

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No, no more printing invites!!! ha ha I have been scarred for life since I did my own wedding invites and my printer and I are still not on speaking terms! Thanks for the suggestion though

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Posted by IrishBrideASmiling

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Posted by geegee827

I honestly wouldn't be offended to receive an e-vite to a RD. If you feel totally uncomfortable, just go to staples or party city, get some cute paper and print them up yourself.

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No, no more printing invites!!! ha ha I have been scarred for life since I did my own wedding invites and my printer and I are still not on speaking terms! Thanks for the suggestion though

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I can't blame you after i print my invites i want nothing to do with printing either

I am doing email myself. . and calling. . not worth the hassle for paper invites and everyone who's coming is so close to me that they couldnt possible get offended!

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Posted by GRod2Be

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Posted by IrishBrideASmiling

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Posted by geegee827

I honestly wouldn't be offended to receive an e-vite to a RD. If you feel totally uncomfortable, just go to staples or party city, get some cute paper and print them up yourself.

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No, no more printing invites!!! ha ha I have been scarred for life since I did my own wedding invites and my printer and I are still not on speaking terms! Thanks for the suggestion though

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I can't blame you after i print my invites i want nothing to do with printing either

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I had a few invites that were returned to us bc of wrong address so I had to re-print some, and the f*cking thing kept on eating my envelopes!!! I was like whyyyyyy?? It only ate 3 out of the 100 i printed the first time around, now its eating every single one I had to correct?!?!? I beat the printer and I sat in the corner and cried my eyes out....so yea we are not speaking!

I ended up using some cardstock I bought and made my own envelopes. I am a little nervous to hear as to whether or not they held up in the mail...

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Posted by IrishBrideASmiling

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Posted by GRod2Be

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Posted by IrishBrideASmiling

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Posted by geegee827

I honestly wouldn't be offended to receive an e-vite to a RD. If you feel totally uncomfortable, just go to staples or party city, get some cute paper and print them up yourself.

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No, no more printing invites!!! ha ha I have been scarred for life since I did my own wedding invites and my printer and I are still not on speaking terms! Thanks for the suggestion though

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I can't blame you after i print my invites i want nothing to do with printing either

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I had a few invites that were returned to us bc of wrong address so I had to re-print some, and the f*cking thing kept on eating my envelopes!!! I was like whyyyyyy?? It only ate 3 out of the 100 i printed the first time around, now its eating every single one I had to correct?!?!? I beat the printer and I sat in the corner and cried my eyes out....so yea we are not speaking!

I ended up using some cardstock I bought and made my own envelopes. I am a little nervous to hear as to whether or not they held up in the mail...

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Yea printers really s uck sometimes. Texting or evite is the way to go wayyy easier than printing and spending more $$ on paper and ink. Hopefully they held up in the mail

we're having a pretty small RD so we're just going to tell everyone to be there the night before the wedding and we should be good to go.

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Posted by DonnaPWhite1124

we're having a pretty small RD so we're just going to tell everyone to be there the night before the wedding and we should be good to go.

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Rephrase-we're going to tell everyone to BE there the night before the wedding. Not actually telling them about the RD the night before

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Posted by GRod2Be

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Posted by IrishBrideASmiling

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Posted by geegee827

I honestly wouldn't be offended to receive an e-vite to a RD. If you feel totally uncomfortable, just go to staples or party city, get some cute paper and print them up yourself.

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No, no more printing invites!!! ha ha I have been scarred for life since I did my own wedding invites and my printer and I are still not on speaking terms! Thanks for the suggestion though

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I can't blame you after i print my invites i want nothing to do with printing either

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I'm sure I'll feel the same way after doing all my printing too.

I agree with everyone above -- an evite, email, calls or texts sounds perfectly fine to me for a RD!

That reminded me to call the hotel right now and get an updated OOT booked list just now. We're getting close to our block but she confirmed that I can add more rooms in incriments of 10 so it's not a problem. Sometimes getting married in July has real advantages.

Thanks girls! Evite it is!!

Wish I could have done evites for my wedding invites lol