RD question

RitasEngaged Posted: Sep 15, 2009 08:28 PM

RD question

do you think it is tacky to have the RD at my house? i would get that food catered but think it would be cheaper than a restaurant

elisa112101 Posted: Sep 15, 2009 08:29 PM

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I think that would be just fine!! I havent even started to figur eout what we are going to do for our RD!

SummerBride10 Posted: Sep 15, 2009 08:29 PM

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Not at all. My parents offered to host the RD at my house. I really like that idea...everyone can be relaxed and hang out for as long as they want- there's less pressure. You're already having a formal dinner for the wedding; so something laid back is a nice change

jesca Posted: Sep 15, 2009 08:29 PM

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Posted by RitasEngaged

do you think it is tacky to have the RD at my house? i would get that food catered but think it would be cheaper than a restaurant

my cousin had hers at the house and it was so much more fun. if any of us lived closer to the RH i would love to have it at home.

futureMrsJSL Posted: Sep 15, 2009 08:30 PM

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To be honest, I am considering this idea my self. Don't think it's tacky at all.

chrisandletizia Posted: Sep 15, 2009 08:30 PM

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no i don't think it's tachy at all

StaceYums81 Posted: Sep 15, 2009 08:31 PM

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not at all - I would do that but the house is too small to have 20 people over for a dinner...

RitasEngaged Posted: Sep 15, 2009 08:31 PM

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i have been looking at restaurants and the cheapest i have found comes out to over 1k because i am having like 32 people

unless someone offer beforehand to pay for it i think it is our only option

RitasEngaged Posted: Sep 15, 2009 08:32 PM

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Posted by StaceYums81

not at all - I would do that but the house is too small to have 20 people over for a dinner...

lol my coop probably is to so maybe i can have someone offer up there house

Jna2010 Posted: Sep 15, 2009 08:34 PM

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totally fine!!!! i think it'll be more initimate and special

T E R I Posted: Sep 15, 2009 08:51 PM

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we are having ours at our house, we will cater the food in and then turn it into a party afterwards for our friends

asg450 Posted: Sep 15, 2009 09:20 PM

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I think it's fine. Ours will be at FH's parents house.

grkbarbie Posted: Sep 15, 2009 09:21 PM

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def not tacky at all!! go for it!

GR2010 Posted: Sep 15, 2009 09:23 PM

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Not tacky at all!!! I think it's a great idea and more comfortable... plus once dinner is over you can al still hang out instead of people feeling like they have to get up and leave the restaurant.

FallBride2010 Posted: Sep 15, 2009 10:09 PM

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Not tacky at all. My best friend just did that...and it was really nice. She had a catered bbq and it was great

MrsC2010 Posted: Sep 15, 2009 10:25 PM

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not tacky at all....we considered doing it at FILs but its too far from the hotel and like 95% of the bridal party will be staying there the night before the wedding.

StaceyWill Posted: Sep 15, 2009 10:26 PM

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Not tacky at all...We had my sister's in our backyard and it was soooo much fun

Lsorrent Posted: Sep 15, 2009 10:35 PM

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Not tacky at all. We're doing a bbq at FIL's house for our RD. It's going to be catered by a local deli and bbq place, but it's still a backyard bbq. That's actually what we WANTED instead....we like the laid back atmosphere much better.