really sad news :-(

Original post by jackie604

Oct 16, 2007 10:06 AM

I know I am very new to this forum, I haven't been able to participate as much as I had wanted because of my working overnights etc... but we are going to have to postpone the wedding because my FMIL was just diagnosed (yesterday) with stage 4 pancreatic cancer and it's not looking good at all it has already spread to her liver. This is a shock to all of us, she has only been complaiing of slight bak pains and stomach aches but she also has had history of ulcers so nothing alarmed her. SHe didn't tell us she went to the doctors and yesterday she had gotten the results from all the tests and broke it down to us. Anyway, I have to try and get some sleep because I had already commited to a double shift and have to be back at work at 3pm.

I will be back one day, just do not know when just yet but I know that I could no longer be a '08 bride

Thanks for the advice you girls have given me I will look forward to it again one day!!!

JimmysPants Posted: Oct 16, 2007 10:47 AM

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Oh sorry to hear that.

mariaobride Posted: Oct 16, 2007 10:47 AM

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Aww so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

blu6385 Posted: Oct 16, 2007 10:57 AM

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i am sorry to hear

ama1771 Posted: Oct 16, 2007 11:20 AM

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bluegreen08 Posted: Oct 16, 2007 11:24 AM

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LeeLee111 Posted: Oct 16, 2007 11:25 AM

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My prayers and thoughts are with you

Dougs Girl Posted: Oct 16, 2007 12:13 PM

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DD628 Posted: Oct 16, 2007 12:15 PM

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im so sorry to hear the news.
Hang in there!

CNC4eva3402 Posted: Oct 16, 2007 12:18 PM

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Wow! I am so sorry

I will definatly keep you and your family in my prayers!!

jackie604 Posted: Oct 16, 2007 04:21 PM

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Hi girls,

Thank you SOOOOOOOO much for the prayers and support. I didn't end up going to work today, I really wasn't able to sleep and doing 18 hours in a lab just wasn't going to happen!!!!! In addition I have just been besides myself. My FH should be coming home soon and we are going to my future in laws.

Obviously we are not going to resume wedding planning just yet, I know my MIL would love to see us get married she has been waiting for it for 7 years! I think if anything we are just going to speed things up and do an immediate family and a restaurant type of thing, Now I am just blabbering because I cant think straight I just know the prognosis can't be good and actually it might be dreadful since I have been researching( prob my biggest mistake).

Anyway thank you for the wonderful comments and I am sure in some time I will be back on and asking advice on how we should do things.

You girls really made an impression on me and have to say sometimes when I get a chance and read some of the posts it just brings a smile to my face. But I will be back, and when I finally get off night shift and feel like I am human and have a life again I could actually spend some quality time on LIW.

emomma17 Posted: Oct 16, 2007 04:51 PM

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Oh I am so sorry my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

DnellD809 Posted: Oct 16, 2007 04:55 PM

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I'm so sorry
My thoughts are with you and your family!
Stay strong!

Collweenie21 Posted: Oct 16, 2007 04:58 PM

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so sorry to hear that! My thoughts are with you!

sassygirl9 Posted: Oct 16, 2007 05:18 PM

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I'm really sorry, my prayers are with you and your fam.

Dana Z to Be Posted: Oct 16, 2007 05:18 PM

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So sorry to hear

PEPE10 Posted: Oct 16, 2007 06:11 PM

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i'm so sorry to hear that-i will keep you and your fh in my prayers

Junebride62108 Posted: Oct 16, 2007 06:57 PM

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This really saddens me..I have your entire family in my prayers. Stay postive and we will all hope for the best.

Mrs.C 102608 Posted: Oct 16, 2007 08:54 PM

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Im so sorry to hear that but stay strong and you are in all our thoughts and prayers.

Belongs2DanBuckley Posted: Oct 16, 2007 09:00 PM

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I know how hard it must be for you guys right now....I hope everything works out....never underestimate the power of the human spirit though seriously...people live through things that should kill them a million times over. Good luck with everything