Regretting Sunday wedding

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Posted by kattus

Thanks ladies! I just have this feeling that we should have made it a Sat and spent the extra $4,000. This may be another 'stupid decision Kathryn made' that's going to bother me for a while.

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Don't you dare say that. It was a wise decision to marry the person you love while saving money! OH BOY! The Brentwood in me is about to come out right now. Let me tell you something. I have a Sunday wedding and let ANY of my friends or family tell me no because it's on a Sunday and they'll have their *** handed to them! If they work...I understand (not really since they have a year to take off but it's still a good reason depending on the job.) If there is a trip planned 2 years ahead (yeah right) I understand. But unless one of them is psychic and can predict a huge emergency their arse better be there.

Maybe the people that said no are not really close to you? Like I might invite 7 coworkers...if one or two of them said no would I really feel herrendous? No...but if someone close to me said No I might question that. Don't feel bad. If they really, really care about you and want to be there for you they will go. And if they are a really close friend or family member ask them why they said No when you talk to them or see them again. People always tell me I am too upfront but I'm just honest. If something bothers me I find out the reason. You might hear something you didn't know about. Sometimes people even say no because they feel bad that they cant give a propoer gift becuase times are tough. You really never ever know. Say my son had a national championship baseball game and my cousin invited me to her wedding. What could I do?? Tell my son no he can't go or I won't watch him play so that I can go to my cousins wedding? See what I mean? Sometimes people are put in a hard place and are forced to say no. No worries!! Your wedding is going to be amazing because your FH is going to be there with the closest people to you and even if 50 people show up make it the best day of your life!!! xoxoxoxo

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Posted by kattus

Thanks ladies! I just have this feeling that we should have made it a Sat and spent the extra $4,000. This may be another 'stupid decision Kathryn made' that's going to bother me for a while.

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I completely agree with what Lilli said......don't you dare say that!!!!!!! Your wedding will be PERFECT, no matter what people say about the day of the week. Please don't feel this way...this makes me very sad for you, this should be the happiest time of your life, please fo not let a few nasty people ruin YOUR day. It'll be PERFECT!!!!!!

Don't regret anything, You will get 'No's' no matter what day of the week. Remember to have fun and enjoy the day, your GETTING MARRIED!!

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Posted by LilinBobby

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Posted by kattus

Thanks ladies! I just have this feeling that we should have made it a Sat and spent the extra $4,000. This may be another 'stupid decision Kathryn made' that's going to bother me for a while.

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Don't you dare say that. It was a wise decision to marry the person you love while saving money! OH BOY! The Brentwood in me is about to come out right now. Let me tell you something. I have a Sunday wedding and let ANY of my friends or family tell me no because it's on a Sunday and they'll have their *** handed to them! If they work...I understand (not really since they have a year to take off but it's still a good reason depending on the job.) If there is a trip planned 2 years ahead (yeah right) I understand. But unless one of them is psychic and can predict a huge emergency their arse better be there.

Maybe the people that said no are not really close to you? Like I might invite 7 coworkers...if one or two of them said no would I really feel herrendous? No...but if someone close to me said No I might question that. Don't feel bad. If they really, really care about you and want to be there for you they will go. And if they are a really close friend or family member ask them why they said No when you talk to them or see them again. People always tell me I am too upfront but I'm just honest. If something bothers me I find out the reason. You might hear something you didn't know about. Sometimes people even say no because they feel bad that they cant give a propoer gift becuase times are tough. You really never ever know. Say my son had a national championship baseball game and my cousin invited me to her wedding. What could I do?? Tell my son no he can't go or I won't watch him play so that I can go to my cousins wedding? See what I mean? Sometimes people are put in a hard place and are forced to say no. No worries!! Your wedding is going to be amazing because your FH is going to be there with the closest people to you and even if 50 people show up make it the best day of your life!!! xoxoxoxo

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OMG love this!!!!! Don't let the Brentwood come out LMAO (i'm from Brentwood too) LOL i'm having a Sunday wedding also , geez the price of these things I debated having it on Wednesday(j/k) Just like everyone said the ones that matter will be there!!!!!

Thanks Brentwood ladies and everyone else! yeah, when people asked why we're having it on a Sunday, I said 'hey, do you want to pay for it?'

I don't see why people can't just take a sick or personal day on Monday and enjoy staying at the Marriott. There's an aquarium there, a aquarium! but feeling a lot better in large part to all of your comments.