Relationships

BellaBella Posted: Feb 21, 2004 09:16 PM

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All of our decisions we are making together, except my dress of course. I love having him be a part of it all, and him the same. But no, no arguments or fights..

HearzBellz Posted: Feb 21, 2004 09:18 PM

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Oh, we fought....... we really fought.... leave it to me to find a guy who actually has an opinion!!!!!

akanini Posted: Feb 21, 2004 09:27 PM

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Posted by LIPrincess00

The only thing he gets mad at is when I make a decision and tell someone in my family and then want to change my mind. He keeps telling me this is my wedding and no one is to tell me what to do. BTW, this includes his family too. Other than that he is so good he goes along with everything.

OMG!!!!I wonder if he's related to my FH. He's exactly the same way.

jill13bean Posted: Feb 22, 2004 08:35 PM

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We don't fight about weddings stuff... he goes along with everything

he wants to pick out the blender on the registry thats it.... and i like to show him before we make any final decisions but he is easy going

sarahthegreat Posted: Feb 22, 2004 08:40 PM

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since we haven't done any actual planning yet, I cannot say that we fight about that. its more his mother who we fight about. once we get going, I think things will go smoothly....so long as he always agrees with me

september2004 Posted: Feb 22, 2004 08:43 PM

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Posted by jill13bean

We don't fight about weddings stuff... he goes along with everything

he wants to pick out the blender on the registry thats it.... and i like to show him before we make any final decisions but he is easy going

same here

dm24angel Posted: Feb 22, 2004 08:48 PM

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Fh doesnt really seem to care at this point, I think as it grows closer that will change. He is shy when it comes to meeting vendors and things so a lot will be left to me, I guess we will avoid the fights that way. Right now we fight over the MONEY. He just bought a $250 cell phone (old one was stolen) yesterday and wanted to buy $250 Met vs Yankee tickets today..I freaked..$500 in two days..on unwedding related unneccesities..it ended up being funny and he agreed to tame it down but I can forsee problems...lol

skew Posted: Feb 22, 2004 08:53 PM

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i am basically handling everything. he does help out, but it's just easier for me to do it. i always run everything by him first and the only thing he really wants to be in charge of his and the GM attire.

it is stressful at times, but i seem to have it under control.

OctGroom Posted: Feb 22, 2004 09:22 PM

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We don't always agree.. but we try to limit how we disagree.. find the common ground and build on that.

With the Wedding, we each have taken the lead in different areas. For Example, I got the videographer, I spoke with him.. Had some info sent to me. I liked the guy.. told her, 'let's go see his work.' and then make a decision from there. She liked his work. I was very impressed as we watched him show his work.. and it all worked out.

She the the photographer. She told me what a great jopb he did at her sister's wedding. I saw the pics. Then we met him.. and that was it. Done deal. I think it's a good sytem we got.

butterfly20 Posted: Feb 22, 2004 09:23 PM

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my fh wants veto power option....and wanted to go along to meet the vendors to book them.. Pretty much he'll go along with the extras that i want, except he doesnt want a unity candle, and i dont care so we'll be skipping it

BoogieDownBride Posted: Feb 22, 2004 09:25 PM

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It's funny - sometimes FH will have what seems to me a very strong opinion about certain wedding-related things. And then down the road, he'll ask why we're not going with such and such thing, like a ceremony musician, and I'll say 'Because you told me you didn't like it' and he'll say 'What do I know? Don't listen to me!'

Drives me nuts! But overall we have agreed on most things...

razz1031 Posted: Feb 22, 2004 09:28 PM

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When we first started planning, I told him that I wanted him involved with everything. I should have kept my mouth shut. He's so involved it's sickening because he disagrees with ALL of my ideas.

Misstene Posted: Feb 22, 2004 10:07 PM

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Of course honey... mostly about guest list stuff...

lilqtny Posted: Feb 22, 2004 10:11 PM

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He is okay with most of what I pick, we pick fights over other things, lol!!! Actually when he is home we never ever fight, its when he is away that we argue, I guess the stress just gets to us.