Removing of the bridesmaid is official

Alyssa79 Posted: Nov 02, 2009 09:01 PM

Removing of the bridesmaid is official

i feel relieved and sad at the same time.

and i don't care what anyone says, sending that email was the best way for me. No way could I have called her and done that. I might've p*ssied out but that was the best way for me to do it.

soontobecruz Posted: Nov 02, 2009 09:03 PM

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awww sorry Alyssa.... I understand I sent a FB message to my friend today. I couldn't call either. I suppose I missed the post of why you felt the need to do it. But I am sure whatever it was it wasn't an easy decision...

Hang in there

regy_k Posted: Nov 02, 2009 09:04 PM

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oh Alyssa!
sorry, its hard to confront ppl no matter how or why u do it on regular basis. cant even imagine how hard it is in this situation.
u did what was right for u, and thats all u can do. nobody is in ur shoes other than u, so it really really doesnt matter what anybody thinks about how u did it

well on the bright side at least this whole awkwardness is behind u now

little j Posted: Nov 02, 2009 09:06 PM

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sorry you need to deal with this. but im sure an email was better to get everything out in the way you wanted. i know sometimes im not good on the phone...especially if i want to present something in a certain way

hope your friend 'gets it'

AngnShaun Posted: Nov 02, 2009 09:06 PM

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i'm really sorry Alyssa. I understand what you are saying. Sometimes its easier to write it and get it all out without interruption and say exactly what you mean.

Soon2bShea Posted: Nov 02, 2009 09:11 PM

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aww!! writing an email is totally fine, I get my words out better that way too.

Nina1010 Posted: Nov 02, 2009 09:13 PM

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Sorry it even got to that point, but and editing it to really captures what your intention is and how you're really feeling. Besides, you get to re-read and edit which is very helpful.

kimmaymb20 Posted: Nov 02, 2009 09:17 PM

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just think of the stress that you wont have now and hey its ok to email

scatteredx12 Posted: Nov 03, 2009 08:21 AM

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sorry you have to go through this... it s*cks losing a bridal party member.. i lost one also.

Rosalind_75 Posted: Nov 03, 2009 08:41 AM

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ya done good kid

StaceyWill Posted: Nov 03, 2009 08:44 AM

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Awwww..sorry you have to deal with that, and i think sending an e-mail is fine. I would've done the same thing.

barbtony Posted: Nov 03, 2009 08:44 AM

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At least its done now....time to move on.

Noelsgirl Posted: Nov 03, 2009 09:00 AM

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Alyssa, I am so glad you did it!! You may feel a bit sad now but it was for the best!!

Alyssa79 Posted: Nov 03, 2009 09:01 AM

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aww thank you ladies.

and a BIG thank you to Roz who had to endure my emails

Rosalind_75 Posted: Nov 03, 2009 09:20 AM

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Posted by Alyssa79

aww thank you ladies.

and a BIG thank you to Roz who had to endure my emails

hahaha
no problem chica

20mrsc10 Posted: Nov 03, 2009 09:21 AM

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MrsHazel2B Posted: Nov 03, 2009 09:23 AM

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The relief part is what will get you through. I cut 2 BMs, FHs nieces, and I feel relieved that the girls will just be my sisters, cousins and best friend. His nieces caused drama and put a damper on my party! These decisions are hard but you did the right thing..