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Review of Westbury & M*I*A* NOW WITH UPDATE!

2009Bride2Be Posted:

Review of Westbury & M*I*A* NOW WITH UPDATE!

I have been soooo busy that I still havent gotten around to writing a full review but wanted at least to write something to help any ladies that I possibly can...

Westbury Manor- B- Everything was gorgeous. I got A LOT of compliments on my cocktail hour which was outside and the set up was incredible. The food was unbelievable, but I was not happy with my service AT ALL. There was a party previous to mine as well as another party going on upstairs. They were expecting us much earlier than we arrived, we were late, yet my bridal suite was NOT ready when we got there. It was still not ready after an hour that we were there and cocktail hour had started. The bridal attendant sat me in the indoor cocktail hour room, where I still had guests walking by to talk to me. Then I get dragged into our room to take pictures which we only had about 10 minutes to take pictures because now our guests are lining up to get in the room. Again my husband and I asked for our bridal suite and I was again told that it was STILL NOT ready! I had to make my grand entrance into my reception without freshening up. The entire evening I NEVER got my bridal suite!!!!!!! They NEVER came over to me to tell me it was ready! I DIDNT get to freshen up ALL NIGHT! THe DJ had to do his set up ON WHEELS because the room wasnt ready from the previous party! I WAS VERY VERY PISSED and DISAPOINTED that a place like Westbury Manor couldnt handle the transition from one party to the next AND couldnt handle having more than one party at a time!

AND to top it all off, the expert bridal attendant who is an expert at bustles and sewing, DESTROYED the back of my dress by bustling it wrong! And not only did she bustle it to the wrong buttons on my dress, she made it so high that it was pulling in the front and the bustle itself was ON MY BACK! The button for my bustle was near my knees!!!!!!!!!! I now have over 5 buttons missing off the back of my dress, the bottom of my dress is a TOTAL MESS and in my pictures my dress looks TERRIBLE! You can see the crinoline, you can see it pulling in front, you can see its literally bustled to MY BACK!!!!! And since I never got my suite I couldnt see cause I didnt have a mirror ALL NIGHT! She didnt once say to me O Im sorry its hard for me to see in here lets go to your suite where you can freshen up and I can bustle your dress properly NO NOTHING! NO ONE was EVER taken to the suite, no matter how many times we asked, our bridal party asked! It was embarrassing for us and it was TERRIBLE because I NEVER got to freshen up or take a breather for a few minutes from everyone. NOR did we get any nice pictures in the suite!

I was VERY disapointed in this considering how AMAZING everything else was. I have since called to speak with someone about it and was brushed off the phone and told to write a letter to the owner. He didnt even want to hear what we had to say he cut my husband off and said write a letter, which we did and no one even called us about it!!!!

Makeup with M*I*A*- A+- She made me FEEL AMAZINGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG!!!! She made me and my girls look ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS! I have NEVER felt sooo stunning in my life! I had people go WHOAAAAAA!!!!!! My husband said I took his breath away!!!!! She is WORTH EVERY PENNY! I CANT RECOMMEND HER ENOUGH! SHES SOO TALENTED AND INCREDIBLE! Her assistant Teresa was INCREDIBLE as well and has a WONDERFUL personality!!!!!!
I have 2 small gripes about her, NOTHING To do with her talent or the work she does cause again OUT OF THIS WORLD!
1.She charged my mother and mother in law full price for styling when she BARELY touched their hair! And I mean BARELY! I actually pushed a lil on this one cause she told me $60 for blow dry for the mothers, I told her you didnt blow it dry, you didnt curl it, you sprayed some hair spray and ran your fingers in it, cant you do something for me. She said flat out thats the price for styling I cant do anything about it, the price is set!!!!!!!!! I WAS very annoyed as was my mother and mother in law especially! $60 for hair that I SWEAR she DIDNT do ANYTHING TO but spray a setting spray in!

2. I felt she was very unprofessional when she got there, she was on the phone for a good 15-20 minutes when she FIRST got to my house and while my mother and mother in law are trying to say hello, shes busy flapping on the phone and FLAT OUT didnt even pay them any mind because she was too busy on the phone. Shes walking into a home where she doesnt know anyone and thats your first impression on them. It was really just not nice AT ALL. She should have stayed in her car and when she was done with her call, then come and ring the bell. It was rude and very unprofessional to be quite honest.
She apologized said she had some personal issue that was pressing, something happened but she told me not to worry it wouldnt affect her the rest of the day, WHICH to her credit it DID NOT AT ALL EFFECT HER Work and she DIDNT get back on the phone Again, BUT she was not her usual bubbly self. She was very quiet, didnt talk much, didnt interact with us. And the reason this bothered me THIS much, because I understand she is allowed to have a life outside her business, she did this to my mother during her trial. She spent 20 minutes on the phone with someone because she had a pressing personal matter. Its just VERY unprofessional in my opinion.
Would I recomend her? ABSOLUTELY!!!!!!! Like I said she does INCREDIBLE WORK and I HAVE NEVER FELT SO BEAUTIFUL. Without a bridal suite I didnt touch up my makeup ALL NIGHT and I STILL looked good at the end of the night. My hair and makeup stayed put. And I danced ALL NIGHT and had a great time!
I went through 2 HORRIBLE trials before lucking out with M*I*A* and when I met with her she spent 3.5 hours with me, she was bubbly and full of personality. and like I said it DIDNT effect her at all so I wouldnt want that to make someone NOT book her but I wanted to be completely honest about my experience...

I WILL WRITE MORE ABOUT THE REST OF THE MY VENDORS when I have time! =))

UPDATE TO WM: Felicia called my husband back and apologized for not getting back to him sooner, she was on vaca and our letter was left on her desk. She mentioned that there was a record of an issue with the bustle of my dress (not clear though what kind of record she meant), she apologized for that, she said she was completely unaware about us not getting our bridal suite and that is COMPLETELY unacceptable. She said she is going to look into why that happened because the party before was WELL aware that they are not allowed to stay in the suite and have to leave immediately from it at the end of their party. The Maitr'ed should have had them taken out of there IMMEDIATELY and she is going to speak to her to find out why this happened. She was EXTREMELY nice and apologetic about the whole thing and offered us a gift certificate for dinner. So Im happy to at least say the situation was handled very professionaly and I feel somewhat better about it. As my husband told Felicia it was about not letting this ever happen to another bride/groom because it was very upsetting...
Marianne13 Posted:

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Congrats! Sorry you weren't 100% happy with your RH but I'm sure it was still a nice wedding. Post pics!

Katlyco Posted:

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I am so sorry to hear that you were disappointed with your RH...I hope everything else about your day was FABULOUS!

Congrats on being married!!!
Melvin1297 Posted:

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I'm so sorry to hear about this... I am getting married at Westbury Manor next year and can't believe this happened to you. How can they not have the bridal suite ready? Please FM me the name of your banquet manager and attendant.

Did you ask to speak to the BM? They should have gotten back to you... Did you try to email them?

Please keep me posted with end result...
Im getting Married Posted:

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Congrats on your wedding..sorry to hear about your RH. That is why I am getting married as well. I would definately think they would comp you guys a meal or something for not having a room for you. I don't think it is too hard to clean up a bridal suite.

Soon2bMrsH Posted:

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Posted by Melvin1297

I'm so sorry to hear about this... I am getting married at Westbury Manor next year and can't believe this happened to you. How can they not have the bridal suite ready? Please FM me the name of your banquet manager and attendant.

Did you ask to speak to the BM? They should have gotten back to you... Did you try to email them?

Please keep me posted with end result...



Congratulations!!!!! im sooooo sorry this happened to you!!!!! i was so excited to read your review and to hear you had issues with WM blows!!! so sorry you had to go through this! Please e-mail me the same info and please also keep me posted!!! post pics if you can!
RitasEngaged Posted:

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i have heard many issues with the bridal suite thank god i don't plan on being in it.

and i was terrified because there is a wedding before me and now you have mad me more scared
RitasEngaged Posted:

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this is why i got a doc - don't want to deal with bridal attendants - hope you didn't give her a big tip

futuremrsjc2010 Posted:

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Congrats!!!!Im so sorry you had to go through that, im surprised as well b/c Westbury Manor seems to be one of the most popular RH's. Hopefully you can work something out with them or maybe they can give you some kind of credit...as far as the make-up artist that was very rude of her, even if she has personal issues she should leave that out the door....

MrsHazel2B Posted:

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That's scary. A huge part of why I booked where I booked is b/c I absolutely do not want another party before me.

2009Bride2Be Posted:

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Yea again EVERYTHING else ran smoothly, the food was incredible, my room looked gorgeous, NOT one guest knew there were any issues at all... They ALL called me saying my cocktail hour was one of the most gorgeous ones they have EVER been to, that my room was gorgeous and they had THE BEST time EVER at a wedding. The peacocks were out it was really GREAT. Even my DJ was like honestly one of the best parties, its up there for me.

BUT yes honestly I was EXTREMELY surprised a place like WM couldnt handle more than one party when this is what they are known for.

And yes I called MY Banquet Manager that I actually booked with and he literally didnt even want to hear our complaint, he said o just write a letter to the owner (as if HES going to read it) and rushed my husband off the phone. He never rushed my husband off the phone when he wanted our money.

And yes I think we are owed something, we spent a lot of $ to have our wedding there and one of the selling points was oo this fabulous bridal suite for you and your bridal party... =/

My bridal attendant was Jessnia and Maitre'd was Sandra... We wanted George, we know him, but he wasnt working that night =/

As soon as I get a chance Ill post pics!
MarjorieFrank Posted:

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Sorry to hear that about your hall and your makeup artist. I am glad everything else ran smoothly and I hope you had a wonderful day!
Thank you for your honesty and insight!!!

dfw343 Posted:

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Don't worry Rita, I will make sure they set up everything for you. I'll be out of there by 5:30 anyways...

I also want to say, elect a person who can handle these things for you. Luckily, I have a close friend who works at a RH and I KNOW she will be on top of things. I need the Bridal Suite to get my dress on and that's it. Now I am thinking otherwise but don't want the dress to wrinkle...
Its2Snappy Posted:

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Your wedding was at 12pm and there was another wedding before you? Did you get married at the RH? I am a bit worried too. I'm getting marreid there also.

2009Bride2Be Posted:

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No my wedding was at night I just didnt change the time on here...

Again these are just my gripes of the small things that went wrong, my day was ABSOLUTELY perfect otherwise, Im just being honest about how I felt about the service from the RH and MA. Like I said, the RH did EVERYTHING else PERFECT NO ONE but me and my husband knew there was an issue. ANd that to me is MOST important!!! Not one guest knew there was an issue. Everything else ran VERY smooth and the transition from CH to reception was smooth, the placecard setup was nice, my cardbox I wish would have been more up front for people to see it more, but thats it. AND trust me NOT having a bridal suite is a HUGEEEEEEEEEE issue for me, but I just wanted to make sure I didnt upset anyone too much. Only like 2-4 people from my bridal party realized that we never got the suite...

AND with M*I*A* she does UNBELIEVABLE work... UNBELIEVABLE! She made me look in the mirror and go WOW THATS ME?! OMG!!!!!!!! I CANT BELIEVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!! I LOOK BEAUTIFUL! I NEVER felt like that before in my life! =)) And my girls, my mother's EVERYONE did the same thing when they looked at themselves in the mirror like WOW!! I just DEF think she needs to learn to be a bit more professional with her phone.

I just dont want to upset anyone or worry anyone who has booked these 2 or are thinking about it. BUT I wanted you guys to be aware so if you already did, keep these things in mind... Im reviewing EVERY aspect of my experience with them and Im a bit of a perfectionist, but the things Im griping about are things that I think people should know and would gripe about.

And these were the biggest issues that day, then I had a blesssed day! The weather was UNBELIEVEABLE, my BM were great, the GM were awesome, the DJ was SICKKKK, NOT ONE PERSON LEFT the dance floor all night! The seats were EMPTY all night! Everyone has called to tell me its the best wedding they have been to! Photographer was very nice, my cake was SICKKKKKKK, food was incredible, EVERYTHING was PERFECT. EVERY wedding has small things that go wrong and that day you just dont care, your just sooo happy to be married and want to party and have fun with your husband, friends and family. Im just happy thats all it was small things in the grand scheme of it all =)

But any help I can offer please FM me. Again I will review the rest of my vendors as well as soon as I get a chance. And I will post pics =)

RitasEngaged Posted:

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Posted by 2009Bride2Be

Yea again EVERYTHING else ran smoothly, the food was incredible, my room looked gorgeous, NOT one guest knew there were any issues at all... They ALL called me saying my cocktail hour was one of the most gorgeous ones they have EVER been to, that my room was gorgeous and they had THE BEST time EVER at a wedding. The peacocks were out it was really GREAT. Even my DJ was like honestly one of the best parties, its up there for me.

BUT yes honestly I was EXTREMELY surprised a place like WM couldnt handle more than one party when this is what they are known for.

And yes I called MY Banquet Manager that I actually booked with and he literally didnt even want to hear our complaint, he said o just write a letter to the owner (as if HES going to read it) and rushed my husband off the phone. He never rushed my husband off the phone when he wanted our money.

And yes I think we are owed something, we spent a lot of $ to have our wedding there and one of the selling points was oo this fabulous bridal suite for you and your bridal party... =/

My bridal attendant was Jessnia and Maitre'd was Sandra... We wanted George, we know him, but he wasnt working that night =/

As soon as I get a chance Ill post pics!



who is your bm - i have a feeling it is mine

well at least everything else was fantastic - i am hoping it was just an off night with them getting there shiitt together
RitasEngaged Posted:

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Posted by dfw343

Don't worry Rita, I will make sure they set up everything for you. I'll be out of there by 5:30 anyways...

I also want to say, elect a person who can handle these things for you. Luckily, I have a close friend who works at a RH and I KNOW she will be on top of things. I need the Bridal Suite to get my dress on and that's it. Now I am thinking otherwise but don't want the dress to wrinkle...



I hope so lol - well my CH is in the garden room so they better have it done by 7 i am just afraid about my vendors setting up
RitasEngaged Posted:

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Posted by 2009Bride2Be

No my wedding was at night I just didnt change the time on here...

Again these are just my gripes of the small things that went wrong, my day was ABSOLUTELY perfect otherwise, Im just being honest about how I felt about the service from the RH and MA. Like I said, the RH did EVERYTHING else PERFECT NO ONE but me and my husband knew there was an issue. ANd that to me is MOST important!!! Not one guest knew there was an issue. Everything else ran VERY smooth and the transition from CH to reception was smooth, the placecard setup was nice, my cardbox I wish would have been more up front for people to see it more, but thats it. AND trust me NOT having a bridal suite is a HUGEEEEEEEEEE issue for me, but I just wanted to make sure I didnt upset anyone too much. Only like 2-4 people from my bridal party realized that we never got the suite...

AND with M*I*A* she does UNBELIEVABLE work... UNBELIEVABLE! She made me look in the mirror and go WOW THATS ME?! OMG!!!!!!!! I CANT BELIEVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!! I LOOK BEAUTIFUL! I NEVER felt like that before in my life! =)) And my girls, my mother's EVERYONE did the same thing when they looked at themselves in the mirror like WOW!! I just DEF think she needs to learn to be a bit more professional with her phone.

I just dont want to upset anyone or worry anyone who has booked these 2 or are thinking about it. BUT I wanted you guys to be aware so if you already did, keep these things in mind... Im reviewing EVERY aspect of my experience with them and Im a bit of a perfectionist, but the things Im griping about are things that I think people should know and would gripe about.

And these were the biggest issues that day, then I had a blesssed day! The weather was UNBELIEVEABLE, my BM were great, the GM were awesome, the DJ was SICKKKK, NOT ONE PERSON LEFT the dance floor all night! The seats were EMPTY all night! Everyone has called to tell me its the best wedding they have been to! Photographer was very nice, my cake was SICKKKKKKK, food was incredible, EVERYTHING was PERFECT. EVERY wedding has small things that go wrong and that day you just dont care, your just sooo happy to be married and want to party and have fun with your husband, friends and family. Im just happy thats all it was small things in the grand scheme of it all =)

But any help I can offer please FM me. Again I will review the rest of my vendors as well as soon as I get a chance. And I will post pics =)




Thanks for being honest - and don't worry - i was worried before you posted
MrsHazel2B Posted:

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Don't feel guilty for griping..I'm sure I speak for all of the future brides on here when I say thanks for being honest. If we don't know, we can't prepare ourselves..so thanks again! Glad your day was otherwise perfect
2009Bride2Be Posted:

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Mel was my BM and my room was the Manor room.

Glad I can help yea if I would have known to double check about my bridal suite at my final payment I would have but like I was told that my bridal attendant was an 'expert at bustles and sewing' dont think they would be telling me that theres a chance they may not be ready for me when i get there! And what makes me more angry is they were expecting us EARLIER so what would they have done with us?!

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