I was bad this time, I said it first after just over a week and a half! FH got a 4.0 at school that semester , and he called me to tell me the good news. I blurted out 'I love you'. I could have DIED of embarrassment. He said it right back, and it's been great ever since... but that's my story.
Just goes to show you, when you know, you know
FutureMrsF2010
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Well, FH and I said it after like 1 a week. We were really good friends before we got involved and we already knew eachother very well.
LouMar2010
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i think it was like 2 months in. it was at some random house party we got suckered into going to. didnt really know many people so we were kinda off the to the side on own own and he wrapped his arms around me and told me he loved me and i said it back.
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I said it first.....think most women do. Said it in the one place you're told not to....in bed during some naughty time. He didn't say it back that time, but the following night he did. Then of course I went through the whole did he say it cause I said it? Ahhhh insecurities. Now you can't stop him from saying it
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We were laying in bed watching 'Secret Window' and he just turned to me and said it.
Aww...I love my FH!
CloudNine
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well after about 2 weeks of dating i dozed off one night but i heard him whisper it to me (he thought i wasnt up and couldnt hear it)....and then about a week and a half later he actually said it....so it ws like 3.5 weeks...damn thats early lol
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well after about 2 weeks of dating i dozed off one night but i heard him whisper it to me (he thought i wasnt up and couldnt hear it)....and then about a week and a half later he actually said it....so it ws like 3.5 weeks...damn thats early lol
That is so cute that he whispered it first.
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FH said it in an e-mail 3 months after we were together. i was going away for 2 weeks & we were suppose to spend the day together but his best friend was leaving for the marines so he went out with his friends instead. i got mad at him & then that night so he sent me an e-mail telling me how much he loved me & how he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. i have carried around a small version of the e-mail in my wallet for the past 8 years.
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Posted by amandah75
I said it first.....think most women do. Said it in the one place you're told not to....in bed during some naughty time. He didn't say it back that time, but the following night he did. Then of course I went through the whole did he say it cause I said it? Ahhhh insecurities. Now you can't stop him from saying it
that is so funny. cause FH tried to say it during that time once & i yelled it him telling him that you don't really mean it at that moment. then this year when we got engaged this time i said it & he said, 'so all u needed was an engagement ring?'
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I said it first.....think most women do. Said it in the one place you're told not to....in bed during some naughty time. He didn't say it back that time, but the following night he did. Then of course I went through the whole did he say it cause I said it? Ahhhh insecurities. Now you can't stop him from saying it
that is so funny. cause FH tried to say it during that time once & i yelled it him telling him that you don't really mean it at that moment. then this year when we got engaged this time i said it & he said, 'so all u needed was an engagement ring?'
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i say the same thing about saying it during sex...it feels awkward to me but he insists that i shouldnt look at it that way that i should see it as romantic and meaningful because its at a moment of intense closeness yada yada .....sometimes my FH is such a girl!
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I said it first about a month after dating... i felt like an *** because he was just like 'uhhh okay..' lol but he ended up saying it back a month later.
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i say the same thing about saying it during sex...it feels awkward to me but he insists that i shouldnt look at it that way that i should see it as romantic and meaningful because its at a moment of intense closeness yada yada .....sometimes my FH is such a girl!
Yours too? There are times I just take a step back and say 'please tell me you didn't say that'.
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Oh my god…mine is such a woman…he loves to talk and talk and talk..he gets along so well with girls, its funny but then he can be such a guy, all obsessed with sports and wings and beer lol. I cant complain too much, we have great communication because of it
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FH told said it to me after about 2 weeks and i told him he was nuts and that he didnt know what he was talking about and that he didnt mean it, and then about 2 months later i said it
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Posted by CloudNine
Oh my god…mine is such a woman…he loves to talk and talk and talk..he gets along so well with girls, its funny but then he can be such a guy, all obsessed with sports and wings and beer lol. I cant complain too much, we have great communication because of it
I call it FHs softer side when he makes his little statements or actions. I guess it is romantic. He's definitely a guy....loves his sports, beer and slapping his girl on the a@@ (that's his favorite).
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i don't remember how far in we were dating but i got a text message saying 'I could fall in love with you' so of course I had to bust his balls and ask if that was his way of saying it. He did say it to me a few weeks after that but I never said anything to him. I wanted to make sure I 100% felt it before saying it so I kept teasing him by saying 'I heart you'. I finally said it one night to him lol.
i;m such a big meanie and biotch...i know
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He told me 2 days into our relationship and I laughed at him, I just though it was just infatuation and we were really young at the time, well i guess he knew best
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he said it about 2 weeks after dating. it was a crazy feeling because i really wasn't looking for a serious relationship at the time but everything just felt sooo right. I write poetry and one day I wrote this poem that indirectly talked about being inlove but not knowing whether or not to say it. after i finished reading it, he was like, 'it's crazy because u just sumed up everything i've been feeling.' so in a way, we kinda said it at the same time.
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It's hard to say because we were friends before and back then it'd always just roll off the lips in our circle of friends. BUT I do remember one night not long after we really started 'dating.' We were sitting in the car, and he said smile. I asked why, and said 'because someone is falling in love you.'
