both our parents are hosting but i am having the RSVPs sent my house since i have the master list so it will be easier. so FH and i live together. which of our names go on the RSVP reply envelope?
bettybcafe
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How is ur invite worded???
FlowerBride
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How is ur invite worded???
its:
my mom and dad together with fh mom and dad request the pleasure of your company as me & fh blahblahblah..
queenb07
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I listed just my name on the envelope even though hubby's name, our parents' names, and my name were on the invite. No one commented. If you're concerned about appearances, you could just put your address on the response envelope and no name.
bettybcafe
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Thats a tough one..I voted for your parents...however..I think it would be fine if you put ur name on it instead..
FlowerBride
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Thats a tough one..I voted for your parents...however..I think it would be fine if you put ur name on it instead..
do i have to put all four parents on it?? ill have to get bigger envelopes - they are all divorced lol
ejm1219
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How about putting noones names on it and just putting your address. That way noone gets offended!
tricia3381
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Posted by FlowerBride
Posted by bettybcafe
How is ur invite worded???
its:
my mom and dad together with fh mom and dad request the pleasure of your company as me & fh blahblahblah..
i'm wording mine the same way and everyone's paying for it (Me fh fil and my parents).i'm probaby just going to have my name on the reply envelope. i feel like putting both Joseph Groom and Tricia Bride would be too wordy. although now that i'm looking at it i like it. so i may change it to both my fh's name and my name.
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im in the same boat. both parents are paying but the rsvps are coming to our apartment. i was actually printing the envelopes last night and asked FH if he wanted both our names on it or just mine. and he said he would like it if both our names were on it...so thats what i did. ask your FH if he wants his name on it or not. if he doesnt care i would put just yours.
ido07
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I've noticed that it seems to be the brides name only on the response cards I have gotten recently for weddings. If FH feels strongly about his name being on it though include his as well
Either way I don't think the parents names need to be there
GabrielleandJohn
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I have received three invites this week for weddings and all of them are 'hosted' by the parents of both and all three response cards are just the brides name.
Soon2beMrsH
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What about putting yours and FH's last names? I will have the same situation.
AlmostKulak
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I did just my name, I have seen it with both bride and groom though. I guess you can do it however you want to.
imas98
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I did both of our names since we live together & we're both paying for it.....as long as FH waits for me to open them I didn't care whose name was on it lol
chellynyc
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We put both of our names.
FlowerBride
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thanks gals i have to ask FH i think im going to go with both our names. i realized that i prob shouldnt do our parents names cause we live in a coop and we have upstairs neighbors but dont use apartment numbers - the mailman just knows who is who. but if i started putting other peoples names i would prob have to put the apartment # on it too so that would just confuse the mailman anyway so its down to either just me, or me and FH so heres a bump for this evening TIA!
PreshusSmurf
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Traditionally they go back to the bride's parents if they are paying.
But if they are going to your house, they should go to you. FH's name doesn't need to be on the envelope.
I think there's potential for a problem with the post office if you have your address with your parents' name, not worth risking that in my opinion.
HelenZ
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I just put my name even though we live together......all our guests know I'll be the one working on the seating chart anyway
drpepper318
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I just put my own name on the reply envelope. I figured as long as one name was on there that would be enough.
