RSVP'S....I HATE THEM!!

sweetdoublenn Posted: Aug 11, 2008 10:19 AM

RSVP'S....I HATE THEM!!

So, with 4 days left till the deadline..we still have 45 invitations still out there!! Why can't they just send it back already!! I am on the war path with these!!!...I think I should start calling people tonight..they have till Friday to get back to me..We do not need to send out more cause I think we got the room covered!!

I'm just so sick of these RSVP'S!!!!!

Julybride08 Posted: Aug 11, 2008 10:21 AM

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I was missing so many also. And my sister too. her RSVP date was yesterday. So now her and my mom have to start calling people today.

sweetdoublenn Posted: Aug 11, 2008 10:22 AM

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When is her wedding? I wanted to call tonight this way they have till Friday!! Or should I wait till Friday and then I can be a B** out of Hell!!!! LOL

laurak102476 Posted: Aug 11, 2008 10:23 AM

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I hear you...

We are waiting for a bunch too....unfortunately, I put my RSVP date as 9/1, so they still have plenty of time. Just s*cks, because I am SO afraid I am not going to hit my minimum!!

sweetdoublenn Posted: Aug 11, 2008 10:26 AM

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I wish that was the case...I think we may be over the minimum!!! Fh is gonna make some calls this week to find out! I have 2 work girls that I am gonna track down today to find out..I can get a verbal!!!

ant090608 Posted: Aug 11, 2008 10:26 AM

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RSVP's are the worst! I can't stand that people are not responding! My deadline was 8/6 and I am missing over 50!

Now I have to start calling these people.

sweetdoublenn Posted: Aug 11, 2008 10:38 AM

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RSVP'S are the DEVIL!!!!

Cheryl28 Posted: Aug 11, 2008 10:38 AM

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i had to call people. I was missing so many and people were telling me the sent them back. Some got lost in the mail. They are so small. they are easy to lose

SoonToBeMrsBrady Posted: Aug 11, 2008 11:08 AM

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I found out that some people never even got my invitation, let alone sending the RSVP back....and then I had some people, who sent the RSVP back and I never got it. Not everybody is lazy and inconsiderate...Even though I was believing that they were!

sweetdoublenn Posted: Aug 11, 2008 11:11 AM

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsBrady

I found out that some people never even got my invitation, let alone sending the RSVP back....and then I had some people, who sent the RSVP back and I never got it. Not everybody is lazy and inconsiderate...Even though I was believing that they were!

This could be true..but the majority of them are Lazy!!!!

Cruelty571 Posted: Aug 11, 2008 12:23 PM

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Heehee we got a RSVP back a week before the wedding. Granted we knew they were coming because my dad called them, but still lol that was funny. I kept expecting to receive another one like the day before the wedding!
I think wait a week after the RSVP by date to call. Some people dump them in the mail last minute so it'll take a few days to get them after that.

marriedinmontauk Posted: Aug 11, 2008 08:06 PM

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you are not alone my friend!

rmoses Posted: Aug 11, 2008 09:44 PM

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Why do you guys think these people are so inconsiderate? Did they ever have a wedding? If not, they're in for a surprise!

I think it's awful that you spend so much money on invitations and some on really nice stamps and they don't have the decency to return them.

Kittyg19 Posted: Aug 11, 2008 09:51 PM

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So annoying and here's another one.... today I got back an rsvp and nothing is marked not yes or no and no name is written. On a lot of the other ones it said where the post mark was coming from but on this one nothing. I have no idea how I am supposed to figure that out???????????? any thoughts?

jrzygrl Posted: Aug 11, 2008 10:27 PM

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not that this will help most... but for those of you who have not sent out the invites yet.... on the back of the reply card in pencil place a number. Then in your wedding spreadsheet link the number to a name/address this way when there is nothing on it you know who exactly it came from.

Kittyg19 Posted: Aug 11, 2008 10:38 PM

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i should have thought of a pencil. I was thinking I didn't have the invisible pen and I was anxious to get them out.... such a good idea as you mentioned for anyone who didn't send invites yet.

BrideToBe921 Posted: Aug 11, 2008 10:46 PM

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My RSVP date is the 20th and I'm still missing about 75 replies. The worst is that I got 2 of them back totally blank with nothing on it. That pissed me off to no end. Who does that?? I mean if you can't come, just notify me so I can make a note of it and you won't be at my wedding, don't freakin send me something back with nothing written on it!! What a waste of a stamp. Ughhh I cannot stand people sometimes

BrideToBe921 Posted: Aug 11, 2008 10:48 PM

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^^^^^^^ The RSVP date is the 25th I meant.. oops

BrideToBe921 Posted: Aug 11, 2008 10:51 PM

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Posted by jrzygrl

not that this will help most... but for those of you who have not sent out the invites yet.... on the back of the reply card in pencil place a number. Then in your wedding spreadsheet link the number to a name/address this way when there is nothing on it you know who exactly it came from.

Ya know, I didn't think I had the same problem as other people but obviously this does happen.. damnit I should have thought of something like that.. Great idea!! Now I'm kicking myself in the *** lol