sad bride...

when a BF for MANY years slowly loses touch and hasn't seen you since she ordered her BM dress LAST JUNE!!!

WE have talked a few times....but I call her every other week or so to keep in touch....she RARELY returns my calls

My sister (MOH) said she was OUT to her mom if she didnt start calling back..and then she did call me crying and apolgizing....then blows me off again for so long. When i bring it up to her she says she always wants to be in my wedding.....but here's the thing that blows my whistle

She is WELL AWARE that we got these dresses at a discount at my cousins shop that was closing. Well it closed in Dec and i had to pay for her dress cause she wasnt calling back about getting it and I have it in my closet....and she has yet to ask whats going on.

She is all BFF when i finally get a hold of her...says she wants to get together....blows me off...then when i catch her again and confront her she cries about being so stressed at work and all and is so sorry...then dhe's gone for a few months
ughhhh

sounds like my MOH!!

but she has always been like that ....and i just accept it.


We have been friends for 22 years....

what do i do? just ignore her til my wedding and see if she calls?????

my b-day is in 2 weeks...lets see if she calls me

bump cause I'm depressed

my sister (and 1 of my MOHs) is a total self centerd b***h! if it's not about her, she couldn't care less!

so I know what you're going through.

Sounds just like my best friend, (well use to be best friend) got a bf wouldn't call, i called every week or so to keep in touch, bf moved in w/ her, she totally stopped returning my calls, i called to tell her i got engaged, took over a week to call me back, then 3 weeks to finally fit me in to come see me, she got engaged a month later, i told her i wanted to meet up and speak to her about things she told me she didn't want to talk about things now and she'll call me on friday (it was a wed) she never called THAT WAS JANUARY! After my last conversation with her, when she said the things she said to me i realized that i either didn't know her or she's changed and after time I moved on. There are still days I want to pick up the phone and call her, but i have to rem. that she must think about it to and she could pick up the phone and call me like she said......sometimes you can't put all the effort into the friendship! A friendship works TWO ways! I totally know how y ou are feeling, and it ***** big time esp when the most important day of your life is coming up and you want this special person there. Hang in there

Sounds like one of my BM's. I almost had to ask her not to be in the wedding anymore because of her antics. People will truly show their true colors at your wedding.

awe.. so sorry to hear that!! That's how I lost my BF. She was my maid of honor, and a week before we had to pick up dresses, she bailed on me with no explanation. Wouldn' t even talk to me via email, phone, in person. She thought I was going to fight her.

Really ?? Who does that??


so.. end result.. I waited for her to call me.. She never called, and she didn't even get an invitation to my wedding. My b-day and wedding came and went, and still nothing from her. She never picked up her dress from the store either.

-- I know what you're going through.. It sux.. but... it will you realize who's important to you and what's not important to your BF..

You may lose your BF,... But you'll always have your LI Weddings Friends!!!

Thank you girls!!!! I an't beleive somany people go through this. It's unbeleivable!!! There are thata many selfish people out there that you onsder a friend..well thought you did.

To add to my story.....i had another friend..my TRUE BF....we did everything wih FH, and his BF who was her boyfriend.
Well when he got set to Iraq.....she was sending me an email he wrote her...funny that above it was the email he sent her,,,,completely b*t*i*g about me and Fh and how shes gonna be stuck here with us alone. andhow she cant wait for the next wek cause i was takin a day off work ( we worked together).....that hurt memore than anything!! cause shes been my closest friend for 6 years.....

so im down two girls... (one never ordered a dress..she was cut out before)

BUT THANK YOU MY LIW GIRLS!!!!!