Save the date Question

just couldnt write std in the subject line lol


anyhow- i was thinking of only sending STDS to out of town family

we have a couple people that we are not sure that we want to invite in round 1 but we have in common friends, so am worried that they will see that and get insulted. we will probably b list these people- but i dont want them to know that they are b list..

would appreciate any suggestions.