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Save the Dates ~ Addressing Question

ruthswedding Posted: Dec 09, 2014 06:20 PM+

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Posted: Dec 09, 2014 06:20 PM

Save the Dates ~ Addressing Question

I am sending out my save the dates soon. How would you do the return address if you and your FH do not live together?

The Future Mr. and Mrs XYZ
at my address?

Do his address for his guests
Mr so and so
His address

OR

The Future Mr and Mrs XYZ
at his address

and

Do my address for my guests?
Ms so and so
My address

Clearly I am very confused lol

rcotter90 Posted: Dec 09, 2014 06:32 PM+

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Posted: Dec 09, 2014 06:32 PM

Save the Dates ~ Addressing Question

We're just doing my address, no name. You don't have to put a name so I think we'll just skip it. We're in the same boat where we don't live together.

Amanda2022 Posted: Dec 09, 2014 07:00 PM+

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Posted: Dec 09, 2014 07:00 PM

Re: Save the Dates ~ Addressing Question

Posted by rcotter90

We're just doing my address, no name. You don't have to put a name so I think we'll just skip it. We're in the same boat where we don't live together.

This! The woman who is doing our invites is putting the return address on our save the dates. She said just the address no name usually goes on it. It saved us the headache of deciding what to put

ChristineNicole Posted: Dec 09, 2014 07:21 PM+

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Posted: Dec 09, 2014 07:21 PM

Save the Dates ~ Addressing Question

For anything wedding related that gets mailed out, the return address is always the bride's but you don't have to put your names.

coffeeisgreen Posted: Dec 10, 2014 12:42 AM+

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Posted: Dec 10, 2014 12:42 AM

Re: Save the Dates ~ Addressing Question

Send them all to one address. Who is home more often? Send them wherever you'd like. We sent them to his parents house because that's where we were most of the time during the wedding planning. We addressed it to our first names.

jdm5256 Posted: Dec 10, 2014 10:10 AM+

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Posted: Dec 10, 2014 10:10 AM

Save the Dates ~ Addressing Question

I have a ton of return address labels for me and my address that I figure I'll use up for the STDs considering I will be moving next year and they'll go to waste. Idk what the etiquette is on it but if they get returned my address is more reliable than my FHs apt so that's what we decided.

booie135 Posted: Dec 10, 2014 02:56 PM+

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Posted: Dec 10, 2014 02:56 PM

Save the Dates ~ Addressing Question

We did The Future Mr & Mrs and we are planning to move into the apartment at his Mom's house, and even though we probably aren't moving in there until right before the wedding, we used his address.

TeresaMarie Posted: Dec 11, 2014 09:27 PM+

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Posted: Dec 11, 2014 09:27 PM

Save the Dates ~ Addressing Question

We live together but are using my parents address for everything wedding since we live in an apartment. I feel
Safer having stuff sent to my parents house.

We put: The Future Mr & Mrs and then my parents address.