second guessing?

second guessing?

Has anyone else second guessed their choice of opinion?

I literally get anxiety over it

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In terms of what? venue?

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Did you give a deposit already? Whats causing you to be unsure? anything in particular?

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I second guess everything LOL

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This is why I am so scared to book a place. I want to make sure i wont second guess it....which RH are you having doubts about?

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yes-it's a big decision.

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I second guessed my dress for a lil while, but I'm over it now. I think we all go through that stage. Just wait it out, hopefully you'll get over it too.

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I do! Almost everything! I dont have any good words of advice, but youre definitely not the only one.

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I second guessed my venue when I found out someone had the first floor of it. BUT I changed my mind when I was reassured you cant hear the other party and the only time the parties will intertwine is when my cocktail hour is over and they open up the outside deck for the public. I had to get a lot of assurance to make me more comfy about the decision,

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i did right afterwards - but then i realized i was being crazy b/c i knew we made the right choice!!

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EVERYTHING that I buy for this wedding I second, third and forth guess! I have this expectation of perfection in my head which is insane...

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I feel like we cant help but second guess our decisions when it comes to our weddings. Were getting opinions (some wanted some not so much) from so many different people, but just be confident and as long as FH supports it, you guys should be fine

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Um, I've second guessed every single vendor. Even the ones I love just because what if there's something even better out there that I haven't seen yet! haha

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I've done it also with the RH - I thought the dance floor was too small and had this idea in my head that nobody could dance So FH took me back to the RH and we measured it out and did a pretend dance so I could be assured that everyone would fit lol. I'm good to go now.

I haven't second guessed my dress - I'm so obsessed w/ it. But I always second guess how much I pay for things and wish I could have negotiated certain things more.

It's totally normal - but the best advice I'd give is, if it's something specific you're second guessing (i.e. like my dance floor), go back and check it out again instead of just constantly thinking about it.

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every single day. I never fell totally in love with mine, but FH did so we decided to go for it. They have a great rep but I just don't get all warm and fuzzy when thinking about it. Then again, nothing about this whole process gets me warm and fuzzy You are definitely not alone!

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I originally was trying to choose between two halls and agonized over it. Then after booking my hall I second guessed it. I let it go for a while and on the pre-anniversary I went there to look at my ceremony area and the hall and I was so in love with it and it made me really excited for my wedding. Totally natural!!!

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I have. But then I go see it I remember why I picked it.