I know this may be hard to believe but I am not a virgin... my sons were not conceived immaculately. And I really ENJOY sex with FH... HOWEVER - I have been thinking that I want to abstain for a bit before we actually get married. Kind of revert to the kissing, cuddling and petting of the early days. Is anyone else considering doing a lock down before the wedding? How long would you consider keeping your knees closed before the wedding? I am thinking 3 weeks.. but I am not sure I will make it. Man that makes me sound like a slut!
luvabul
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3 years...wow CONGRATULATIONS lol
eunicsd006
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ha!!! i havent had sex since jan 2nd fh ideas of no sex until the wedding....this really *****....at least i just have to wait 4 more days
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Posted by eeelisas
Well so far we've made it 3 years, just 8 more months to go!!! Then again, we're waiting until marriage! It's been a loooooooooooooooong 3 years, but it will be well worth the wait. We joke around that they're gonna say, 'You may now kiss the bride.' We'll high tail it outta there and dissapear for a while. Just kidding. We'll probably wait til after the reception, but the second the clocks strikes 11, we're OUTTA there!!!!! We ain't waitin no longer after that!!
Wow, I'm happy to see someone else in the same boat as me! It's been 4 years for us.. the only difference is we used to do it, but I made the decision to stop, and he stuck with me despite that!
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Posted by FutureMrsGK
I wanted to do this also but I dont think FH is going to go along with it..
same here
Ditto!!
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Thats not happenein for me. I'm a freakin horn dog
oops, meant to say ditto to this!!!
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We talked about it too...FH said that I'd last a week and so we tried it on a bet to see how long I could hold out. And you know what...he won! By like day 3, I was kind of begging for it. And he was relieved at that point. And the only reason we got to day 3 was because day 2 he was working a night shift so i didn't really have much of a choice...LOL. But its gonna be special regardless if you hold out or not because I want to have one last night making love to hm as my fiance and then our first night as a married couple. So we'll probably have sex the night/evening before the wedding
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I think I already responded to this post but I will say again that when i brought it up to FH he looked at me and said 'this girl has gone mad..' LOL or something to that effect, I think the week of the wedding I will be way to stressed to even think about it...but that's about it!
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We have already been abstaining a bit since we only get to see each other 1x per month , so I don't think 1 month without sex will be that hard. I really doubt that FH would go for any longer than that though!!!
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I actually just mentioned this to FH over the weekend. He gave me a big thumbs down on the idea.
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This subject falls under 'we'll talk about it later.' This means 'no' then. We're moving in together before we actually marry, so I don't know how long we can even last without having sex.
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honestly my drive is just nonexistent sometimes. i get home late and we're busy , so we'll just hold eachother and love eachother and look into eachother eyes.
