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Share Your Wedding BUDGET Please

Original post by SummerBride2005

Excluding the price of your reception, how much are you expecting to spend. I'll go first..

Gown - $1,000
BM Dresses - $600 - Yes, I'm paying for them
Florist - $2,500 (approx)
DJ - $1,300
Officiant - $300-$500 range
Video/Photo - $3,700
Invites - $200 - 300 range

Yeek, so many other things I haven't listed yet,
SomethingBlu Posted:

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Similar to Suven, mine is a total budget...so not including the hall, we have $18,000 with which to do EVERYTHING including (and I'm sure I'm forgetting things):

Church Donation (includes priest, organist and singer)
Dress
Shoes and Accessories (including jewelry and undergarments)
Groom's Tux and accessories
Hair and Make-up
Limos
DJ
Photo
Video
Wedding Bands
Honeymoon
Favors
Invitations
Rehearsal Dinner
Parent gifts
BP gifts
RG and FG gifts

LM903 Posted:

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You're in luck, I just update mine tonight!

Dress/Veil - $1,200
Flowers – reception/ceremony $2,000
Photographer - $2,500
Limo - $300
Invitations $600
Donation to church - $500
DJ- $1,200
Marriage License - $100
Wedding Bands - $1,200
Bridal Party Gifts & Parents gifts $700
Wedding Favors- $350
Wedding night at Garden City Hotel - $225
Honeymoon - $7,500
BrideHair and Makeup (with tip) - $250
Tips (day of) - approx. $1,000
Wedding Programs - $500

girlygrl33 Posted:

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I dont have it listed but my dad and I were going over the figures and I almost sh*t myself when we came to a number so far and we are not done of 38k!!!!!! I still need to purchase lots of stuff. so I blew my budget by oh lets say when all is said and done by 17 grand ( budget was 25K). ahhhhhh thank god we have a house allready or I think I would die! Ha and you think I was getting married in oheka with that kinda money, its the vendors that get you too when you upgrade everything!! the hall alone was my budget- scary!!! And this number does NOT include the HM!!!

busybee705 Posted:

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I'm trying to stay under 25K.

So far I have these expenses:
Church, officiant: 500
Reception: upwards of 12K
Photo/Video: about 5K
Dress, Accessories, hair & Makeup: 1100
DJ: 1500
Florist: Hopefully less than 1200

I still have limos, favors, invitations & programs, etc. to go!

I am really trying to stick to my budget, even if we have to put our honeymoon off by a couple of months..
jols Posted:

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I have been in so many weddings and no one paid for anything, then again no one asked me to where my hair or makeup a certain way. For my wedding they can do both themselves if they want to.

KarenB Posted:

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I personally think if you have requirements for your BP than you should pay for them.

MrsJ Posted:

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Posted by KarenB

I personally think if you have requirements for your BP than you should pay for them.



I made sure I picked a dress that was not too expensive. After that, I told them to pick what ever shoes they wanted (one BM even dyed her wedding shoes the color of my BM dress and that was fine with me). I also told them they could have their hair and makeup any way they wanted. If they wanted to get it done, fine with me. If not, that's fine with me too. I didn't tell them they had to do anything. I thought it was unfair to tell them they HAVE to do all this stuff and spend $500++ for my wedding, especially after they already paid for my shower, bach-party, engagement gifts and were going to be giving us wedding gifts.
AnniesSS Posted:

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I really don't want to know how much I spent! But compared to some of you girls, I'm getting off easy!

Dress (W/alterations)/veil/tiara: $700
DJ: 800
Limo: 350
Flowers: Don't know yet - prolly 500
MOH Dress: $180
Hair/Makeup: Don't know yet, a friend is doing it who's a hairdresser.
Photo: $1300 (another friend of the family)
No video
Officient: Free - she's my cousin

JimmysBride Posted:

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I'll give you my actual amts instead of my 'budgeted' amts since I didn't do a very good job of sticking to it!!

Gown & Bridal attire (including veils, alterations, undergarments, & bustle) - $4360
Tiara - $125
Jewelry - $35
Shoes - $40
Rings - $800
Honeymoon - $7800
Photo & Video - $3200
Day of Tips - $1500
Makeup - $175
Fee at Westbury Gardens - $355
DJ - $1400
Harpist - $200
Limos - $1200
Invitations - $750
Church Donation - $250
Music Fee at Church - $175
STD's - around $100
Table Cameras - around $60
Favors - $400
Votive Placecards ~ $150
BP gifts - $300


That's all I can remember for now.... and that's not including alot of the little things that add up to like:

-shopping for the HM
-bride's pre-wedding mani, pedi, facial, wax, & massage
-bachelorette party expenses
-programs, menus and tissue packs which I made


dpli Posted:

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My total budget was $17,000 - we were shooting for $15k but couldn't do it and I was happy that we keot in under $20k

JimmysBride Posted:

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Posted by KarenB

I personally think if you have requirements for your BP than you should pay for them.



And you're entitled to your opinion. I personally don't agree with that. I've been in many weddings (like 8) and nothing was ever paid for for me nor did I expect it to be. I was always prepared to pay for whatever it cost to do whatever the bride wanted. And everything was chosen for us from shoes to makeup to *exact* hairstyle. No complaints from me or any of the other girls. That's just what we were used to, what we expected -- though that's not exactly what I did for my wedding.

leighdvm Posted:

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Ok, here's what I am spending:

Hall -- $14,000
DJ -- $3,650
Photo -- $3,500
Florist -- $1,700
Video -- $1,250
Dress -- $525.00
Honeymoon -- $9,000
Limo -- $1,000
Tips -- $1,200
Hair/Makeup -- $400
Bridal Party gifts -- $1,000
Favors -- $200
Invites -- $200
Church fees -- $500
VS11 Posted:

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Just the follwoing:

band-6500
photo/video-5200
<----flowers-5000 (my cp)
dress-2500
tiara-300
limo-2500
honeymoon-9000
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not including..
HALL,,,favors,,,invitation,,,BP gifts,,undergarments,, vendor tips,,church fee,,,picture location fee.....and much...much more




god I love my parents and FIL's
Meg Shea Posted:

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Alot of you haven't included your halls in your budget. Does that mean your not paying for them?
If someone could pay for my hall I would be floating on cloud 9 now until Oct. 7th
VS11 Posted:

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If FH and I were paying for our wedding,,, our budget would be $19.95...enough to cover the price per head at an all u can eat chinese buffett!!!

And our guests would have to pay for there own..

SomethingBlu Posted:

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Posted by Meg Shea

Alot of you haven't included your halls in your budget. Does that mean your not paying for them?
If someone could pay for my hall I would be floating on cloud 9 now until Oct. 7th



The post states 'not including food' - the hall is the food/liquor so I think that's why a lot of us are not including it.
SomethingBlu Posted:

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If we were, you're right...the price would be a LOT higher...
VS11 Posted:

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i just edited my post,,didnt realize the hall was not suppose to be included...

ckgmwedding Posted:

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Other than the band I think I did well-

Band: 6500
Florist: 600
Other decorations and mis. stuff like candles, lighthouses for centerpieces, bathroom baskets, OTT bags, etc:500
Wedding Dress: 410
Veil- borrowed
hairpins- $40
Invitations: 240- 320 with Calligraphy(Inkspun)
Programs and menus: 80 for paper- doing myself
Favors: donation- $1000 after the wedding
Photo:2700- no video, just friends doing it
Church: 450
Bagpiper: 225
Limos and transporation: 700
Wedding bands: ???- didn't get them yet
Honeymoon- 4500- all-inclusive with airfare

It keeps going up and up- and this is still pinching pennies!




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