Don't feel bad or change the date!!! Your friend should be happy for you on whatever date you get married. I am getting married on my niece's birthday who is one of the FG's.
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Posted by MuchInLuvMichi
ur friend is nuts, no way should u feel bad!! geez if u started picking wedding dates on other pple..no date would ever b good
I second this
I agree. How long have they even been dating. I wouldn't consider using my parents' wedding anniversary or my sister's wedding anniversary but a friend's dating anniversary.... that's insane. Do not feel bad and do not change. She's being unreasonable.
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I don't see why she's upset. She can still get married on that date in some future year. Two married couples who I am friend with were married on the same date, but one year apart. The couple that got married first thought that going to their friends' wedding was an awesome way to celebrate their first anniversary. They share something special, and the date has all sorts of good karma attached.
Long story short, don't even think about changing your date!
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Your friend needs a major reality check and honestly, it sounds like she has another issue - you getting married before her.
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Posted by MuchInLuvMichi
ur friend is nuts, no way should u feel bad!! geez if u started picking wedding dates on other pple..no date would ever b good
completely agree!
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Don't change the date. That is very selfish of your friend to even say that.
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Whoa, she needs to dial down the crazy/self-absorbed a bit. Either that or let her know all the dates that you're thinking of maybe giving birth to your 10 children that you'd like her to be sure to keep clear of.
Whoa. Issues.
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You should not feel bad. You could get married on any day that you want!!
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That is the most ridiculous, childish thing I've ever heard! When she gets engaged, she'll realize what a jerk she was. When DH and I found our hall they only one date in October available, and it just happened the be the week before our friend's wedding. They weren't thrilled about it, but they understood that we weren't doing it on purpose, there wasn't another option. Tell your friend to go scratch and grow up!
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That is the most ridiculous, childish thing I've ever heard! When she gets engaged, she'll realize what a jerk she was. When DH and I found our hall they only one date in October available, and it just happened the be the week before our friend's wedding. They weren't thrilled about it, but they understood that we weren't doing it on purpose, there wasn't another option. Tell your friend to go scratch and grow up!
I agree!!!
It sounds exactly what my FSIL said to me when she found out the wedding song we had picked! At the time she wasnt even engaged and got all upset that we 'stole her song' Give me a break!! she didnt even know who sang it!!!
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i would NEVER consider changing the date for that reason.... If you listen to everyone else, you'll NEVER enjoy being engaged or getting married... turn a deaf ear . . .
Mishu
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That is my birthday..and I give you total premission to use it
Since the girl is not even engaged...I would not consider changing it
if ahe is really close to you ...you may want to sit her down and tell her that if you had to worry about not stepping on any toes ...you would never get married ...casue there would be no 'avaliable' date you could chose. Also tell her it is tough owrk getting the hall you want and the church you want on the same day
good luck
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No WAY should you change it. In fact, funny story - my best friend got engaged before me, and was looking at halls. My first date with FH was at Villa Lombardi's, and we always joked about getting married there (prior to be engaged.) So, she scouts halls, and falls in love with, you guessed it, Villa's. She actually called me and asked me if I minded - and I told her she was nuts - sweet, but nuts. I said she should get married wherever she was happiest - and it would be great. In the best case scenario, we would be hall twins! Turns out, I am having the reception at East Wind. Who knew? The point is, life is what happens when you make other plans, and I didn't plan the East Wind, and your friend might not get married on that date. Tell her to lighten up.
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This actually made me laugh out loud. It's ridiculous and, no offense, your friend is out of her mind! Every date is an anniversary of something for somebody! Besides, she's not even engaged and I'd feel this way even if that was her wedding date! I'd stick with that date and not even give it another second's thought!
I second this and all the other responses. How annoying. I'm sory for you.
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I wouldnt change it...if you are really good friends how awesome would it be if you both eventually had the same anniversary...its not like you are getting married the same day and the same year...she needs to calm down! One of my guests will be celebrating her 1 year anniversary (if they make it lol) and it doesnt bother me...as long as they dont make a big deal about it being their 1 year anniversary.
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You're friend is just jealous that you're getting married and she is not!!! Believe me, jealousy is bad. She's just trying to be difficult. Who says she would even be getting married that time of year.
