should i feel Bad? O it gets better...... ETA: The Update! UPDATED I AM BACK!
Original post by june262004
Ok I am sure a lot of u remember my cousins giving my best friend a hard time about my shower. Everything she tried to do 9she was my MOH) was a problem and when it came time for money they refuse to put in what everyone else put in MY OWN FAMILY!
Then after that i was like I am planning my own Bachelorette party since I kept hearing all the crap that went on with the shower I didnt want anymore crap with my Bachelorette party. I said at first I wanted to goto the city my cousin said I dont want to goto the city I don't want to pay a cover charge to get into a club. Then I changed my mind and wanted to goto atlantic city well the both have babies and didn't want to leave them overnight then I was back at ok lets goto the city.... they werent happy. My mother was able to get a COMPED room in A.C. This sat. I want to go I told my cousins that this would be my Bachelorette party my mom is going to go for the day (she has to be there to check into the room) and she is going to leave that night so if u dont want to leave the babies over night (and their other reason was cause sunday is fathers day and they couldnt do that to their husbands ummmmm I thought fathers day was suppose to be spent with ure child) they could come home on sat. night since my mom didn't want to drive alone. they havent even answered me and they really are acting funny towards me. i feel like I am a bad person cause i am doing what I want to do for my Bachelorette party.
Just a side note. i was in both of their weddings the first one I was really young and they had strippers so I wasnt invited to that bachelorette party. the second one i was only 20 and couldnt get into the Club they went to so they left me outside by myself to wait for mike (who was my Boyfriend at the time) to come pick me up.
should i feel bad? or should I do what I want.
ETA: So my mom calls the two in question last night to tell them about A.C. and they say ooo ok ill let u know.
My cousin (who didnt want to go to the city cause of not wanting to pay a cover charge) husband tells me today (we work together) would you be really upset if she didn't goto atlantic city with you guys? I was like yeah. He's like well I have to work on Saturday I said yeah and her mother offered to babysit?!? And you know she wont leave the baby overnight. I said yeah and my mom is coming home that night and doesnt want to drive alone?!?! And you she said she'd go with ure mother but then she can't smoke in the car! IS SHE KIDDING ME!!!!!!!!!!!! I was like and my mom always stops for peepee brakes?!?! I feel like her smoking habbit is more important then me. Maybe my sleeping habbit is more important then babysitting her child everyweek for free!
So she calls my mom tonight and says Im sorry i am not going to be able to work. If we did something local I'd be able to make it. Why do we have to goto A.C. ? IS SHE FOR REAL. My mom said to her something to do eith cover charges (WHICH WAS HER LIKE A YEAR AGO SHE SAID I DON'T WANT TO GOTO THE CITY I DON'T WANT TO PAY A COVER CHARGE!) She goes who would have said that? My mom said i don't know!!!!!!
Then my other cousin calls and says im sorry I am not going to be able to go I am not walking right still (she had a baby 2 months ago and for the last 4 months of her pregnancy she sat on the couch so the baby laid on her whatever and know she has a hip problem or something) BUT this sat was my little cousin graduation part and That cousin was up there dancing up a storm and she can't walk right so she can't goto atlantic city? I am so mad and upset My family they should be there for me!!!!!!! They have an exscuse for everything! If i said I was going to the city instead they would make something up to. i see who I am important to.
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Re: should i feel Bad? O it gets better...... ETA: The Update!
Well we went to A.C. It was just me and my MOH and one BM. My MOH is my Best Friend who I have known since I was in 10th grade and the BM is my Friend who has lived next door to me and known me since before I was born. We got to A.C. At 10 AM My bridesmaid had to drive her own car because she said she can't smoke in My MOH car. Since my MOH and I are both non smokers we were a little annoyed by this. And we drove in my MOH car. She followed us. See my bridesmaids car is a 2 door and my moh car is a 4 door it is a lot easier getting in and out and we even told her we would stop. Besides the fact that my BM car has a hole in her brake line and is leaking brake fluid so her entire car stinks and is unsafe. She says she has to coast to a stop. i wasn't about to sit in a car for that long. We got there laid on the beach ate breakfast (which my BM and MOH paid a big wopping 15.00 each for) and then we went took naps LOL. Got up showered got dressed and got ready to go out my BM only brought jeans and sneakers (she knew we wanted to go out) She then continued to be on the phone (she was on the phone all day) and She invited one of her friends that she met on yahoo who lives about an hour away to come out with us. whatever. We go out to dinner my BM pays 11.00 for dinner. We goto a Beach Bar and my MOH buys me 2 drinks at 10.00 each. BM bought me nothing. We goto the club at the Trump Marina that i wanted to goto and my BM can't get in cause she is in jeans and sneakers. So we get back into the car back to our hotel and she says well I am going to go to bed. If we knew that my MOH and I would have stayed at the club????? But we changed and went to the casino played for maybe an hour went to bed. We wake up to my BM packing up at 8 am and we hear on the phone saying I like foxwoods better The food here is expensive see the reason why I wanted to say how much she chipped in for each meal was because I really didn't think it was that much? Then we hear her say ya I will be there in about an hour she was going to the friends house that she invited for breakfast?????? O well.....
moral of the story I had a great time anyway. and my cousins should have gone and left with my mom as you can see we didn't start gambling until like 1 am. They would have been long gone by then but It would have ment a lot to me. Mike told them I talked to Kristin at 9 and the funny thing is she said they didn't even start gambling yet. They were speachless. LOL....
All that matters is that i had fun and I see who I am important too. Thanks all for listening to me.
