I think I have 50 invited and probably 40 or so will come. but it all depends on how big your actual wedding list is. Mine isnt huge.
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Re: shower guestlist question
Posted by mrsq2be
m i being unreasonable though for wanting 8 of my close friends at the shower? that woudl make it over 50, but I dont want to make it too costly for the girls.
I honestly think my mother is crazy when she expected that the entire wedding guestlist of people would be invited to the shower ( we have about 280 invited - so cut that in half and say 140 for the shower! ) I think that a little nutso!
Funny I was totally going to ask the same question sooner or later...cause I have a total of 277 people and I thought it would have been crazy to invite every girl...it's way too much for my girls, cause my mom cannot afford to throw me one. I keep telling my aunt and girls to just throw it at a house please dont go crazy I'm even going to the point that I want to pay for my mom to come up (she is in FL)...I don't want them to have an extra added expense...ugh! I just always feel bad about people spending money on me...