Sick New Yorkers! WARNING!

Original post by myasmom

Mar 11, 2004 06:01 PM

Why freaking me.........

I was on the train today... 4:30. Crowded as usual. Behind me was a cute guy in a business suit..Think Wall street.
Well he kept bumping me...I am so used to this since its rush hour...well he keeps brushing me all too often so I get concerned. Finally I get pissed and I turn around and giv ehim the evil Look and he stops..he waits a few minutes and then I feel this sicko stroking my hand so I pulled away from the pole and told him some choice words.
When this lady was getting off she gave me a note...it said...The guy behind you was rubbing himself against you...not bumping.....BECAREFUL>>>>>>>>***
sure nuff the guy kept trying to get my attention and I got off the train he started to follow but I went over to a cop and he jumped on the next train which was leaving the station.

LADIES BECAREFUL.

kathleenmarie Posted: Mar 11, 2004 07:11 PM

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a lot of crazies in the world! I wish you had some mace to spray him. I pray that guy didnt get a hold of someone else and do something.

Smolokoff Posted: Mar 11, 2004 07:17 PM

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I am so sorry you had to go through that. Just be thankful it wasn't worse. May I ask which train it was on? I take the subway every day and want to know if I should look out for this guy.

JimmysBride Posted: Mar 11, 2004 08:13 PM

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What HORRID thing to have happen to you Women have to be so careful and aware of what's going on around them.

lilqtny Posted: Mar 11, 2004 08:16 PM

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I'm so sorry that it happened to you............but lets not label all new yorkers, some of us are nice

and I am so glad you are okay, I don't even want to think of what that could have lead to if you were alone instead of in a busy station.

Marcela1654 Posted: Mar 11, 2004 08:29 PM

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UGH!! That's digusting!! I'm so glad you're OK

jvs77 Posted: Mar 11, 2004 08:30 PM

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Oh my Lord! I'm glad you're okay!!

myasmom Posted: Mar 11, 2004 08:40 PM

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It was on the E train of all trains.
WHich is always crowded

I swear. If I saw that creep again. I would just grab his 'thing' really hard and twist it into knots. Its funny how brave we get after the fact. When its happening I think a part of you dont want to believe it.

neen Posted: Mar 11, 2004 09:37 PM

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Thank goodness you are ok. Stay away from the 4, 5, F train!!!! They attract some weird critters

checka Posted: Mar 11, 2004 09:45 PM

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Sorry that happened to you.
The same thing happened to me on a packed city bus when I was in HS. Another time on a packed bus I thought that somebody's bag was hitting me in the butt. It turned out to be the hand of the perv behind me. I went to an all girl Catholic HS so there were tons of perverts around. Sickos!

Jax430 Posted: Mar 11, 2004 09:58 PM

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That's so creepy! I'm glad you're okay. Thanks for the warning. It's uncomfortable enough being jammed together like a can of sardines in the subway without worrying about some creep getting his jollies....

TogetherForever Posted: Mar 11, 2004 09:59 PM

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OMG!! scary ppl in this world!

July2004Bride Posted: Mar 11, 2004 10:09 PM

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Posted by myasmom

Why freaking me.........

I was on the train today... 4:30. Crowded as usual. Behind me was a cute guy in a business suit..Think Wall street.
Well he kept bumping me...I am so used to this since its rush hour...well he keeps brushing me all too often so I get concerned. Finally I get pissed and I turn around and giv ehim the evil Look and he stops..he waits a few minutes and then I feel this sicko stroking my hand so I pulled away from the pole and told him some choice words.
When this lady was getting off she gave me a note...it said...The guy behind you was rubbing himself against you...not bumping.....BECAREFUL>>>>>>>>***
sure nuff the guy kept trying to get my attention and I got off the train he started to follow but I went over to a cop and he jumped on the next train which was leaving the station.

LADIES BECAREFUL.

What a PERV!

Rainmama Posted: Mar 11, 2004 10:11 PM

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Gosh! Sorry that happened to you! These stories really confirm my decision to stay in the 'sticks.'

myasmom Posted: Mar 11, 2004 10:40 PM

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I am moving with you...
Seriously I worry about my daughter and these perverts.....Us as adults are able to defend ourselves but innocent little girls---or boys....may not.

AtticaQT Posted: Mar 11, 2004 10:54 PM

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Posted by Xelindrya

I found it ....er... unnerving ..? .. disturbing...? ... when there's a homeless guy on the train sitting on the train with his hand in his zipper 'massaging' himself. Not moaning or bringing attention to himself. Just doing his thing. I looked around and either NY'ers are GREAT actors all and all or most of the folks nearest to him didnt notice. A few did, you could see them move away or try HARD not to look and/or trade me a glance that said 'I know'.

I've had a couple of occurences with this - and yes NYers totally ignore when it happens. That isnt as gross as having a guy massaging it out in the open and moving his leg against yours when you are sitting next to him. When i realized taht was happening - i JUMPED up and JETTED the H E L L out of that car!

Sassyz75 Posted: Mar 11, 2004 11:42 PM

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that happened to me on the N train.. it's SOOO disgusting.

skew Posted: Mar 11, 2004 11:46 PM

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Posted by am470

That is a paraphilia (a sexual disorder) called Frotteurism (sp?). Its when people can only get aroused when rubbing up against people without their consent.

EWWW! what the hell is wrong w/ people?