I was on the train today... 4:30. Crowded as usual. Behind me was a cute guy in a business suit..Think Wall street. Well he kept bumping me...I am so used to this since its rush hour...well he keeps brushing me all too often so I get concerned. Finally I get pissed and I turn around and giv ehim the evil Look and he stops..he waits a few minutes and then I feel this sicko stroking my hand so I pulled away from the pole and told him some choice words. When this lady was getting off she gave me a note...it said...The guy behind you was rubbing himself against you...not bumping.....BECAREFUL>>>>>>>>*** sure nuff the guy kept trying to get my attention and I got off the train he started to follow but I went over to a cop and he jumped on the next train which was leaving the station.
LADIES BECAREFUL.
steph4777
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Good thing the cop was there....It's a shame there's so many sickos/perverts out there.
jw11897
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That was really nice of her to give you the heads up.
Chloegirl
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OMG that is disgusting...I am sorry that happened to you!
JENNCHRIS
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Yuck - you shoulda decked him!
MegLehner
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GROSS!!!!!
Julestrd
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I have started carrying pepper spray for that reason...just in case..
belle31125
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OH my God.. thats gross!!! Did he think he had a chance? GEEZ!
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Posted by Julestrd
I have started carrying pepper spray for that reason...just in case..
I've been thinking about doing that! What an a$$ hole!
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I hate hearing stories like this...I take the subway every day as well...
Glad you got away from him when you did
junebride04
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what a sicko!!!!!!
Janine24
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OMG glad to hear you are ok... what a crazy man
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Eeeeeeeeeewwwwwww!! I'm so sorry that happened. :(
I once saw a woman handle that sort of sitch in classic fashion, on the crowded rush-hour subway, she grabbed is hand/arm, raised it into the air, and SCREAMED out loud, 'I this your hand??? Keep it to yourself!!!' The guy was embarrassed beyond belief and the crowd on the train was in full support of our girl!
What a jerk!
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Ewww, that's horrible.. but it does happen. You have to be careful, people are way too bold these days...
JP&EP
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What a jerk, I'm glad you're ok
sophie78
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That is a paraphilia (a sexual disorder) called Frotteurism (sp?). Its when people can only get aroused when rubbing up against people without their consent.
04Bride
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EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!
Glad you are ok.
LIJuneBride
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How disgusting! You handled it better than I would have. Glad you're okay.
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This makes me angry! What a sick jerk. Hope you're feeling OK. If that happened to me, I would probably feel shaken up for the rest of the night!!
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I hate those guys! It happened to me once.
Once in a crowded train a guy got behind me. Im REALLY self-conscience about this stuff. He 'bumped' into and I looked at him. 'Sorry' ok.. no biggie.. I paid attention. The next time he bumped into me there was no reason.. no movement of train in THAT direction. So I immediately said 'ENOUGH'. He laughed and actually laughed!!! The next time he bumped into me I turned all the way around looked him dead in the face and said 'Back the F off or I'll break of your prick and force feed it to you'. About three guys closest me to me said 'leave the lady alone' And yes about two girls nearly started to giggle. Remember im not tall or mean looking so this sorta shocked the guy.
Even single, I NEVER understood how some men think it's COOL to get away with taking advantage of a moment. Ticks me off to no end.
I found it ....er... unnerving ..? .. disturbing...? ... when there's a homeless guy on the train sitting on the train with his hand in his zipper 'massaging' himself. Not moaning or bringing attention to himself. Just doing his thing. I looked around and either NY'ers are GREAT actors all and all or most of the folks nearest to him didnt notice. A few did, you could see them move away or try HARD not to look and/or trade me a glance that said 'I know'.
I am so worried when my parents come up to visit for the wedding. I really need to sit and talk to my Dad.