As she said above, stay out of it. I have a similar friend who unfortunately does not know what a healthy, normal relationship is. Be there to listen, though I know it's hard to do,but at the end of the day she chooses to be with this guy..
i wish she never told me...all i want to do is stay out of it but i am getting detail after detail after freaking detail...
Trust me, if I was to tell you what comes out of my friends mouth, your ears were bleed. It's even worse when they can't or don't care that the behavior is dysfunctional..
or the making of the excuses as to why the behavior is the way it is
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Re: Sick to my stomach....need advice
Posted by mariedsgn
oh Boy Christina!
I hate to say this but she has to learn by herself, no matter what you say to her she is going to do what she wants to do anyway. my best friend has been through this a BUNCH of times and for some reason she always goes back to the guy. . . . and a few time she got really made at me for telling her that she could do much better.
DITTO! My MOH is with this guy and I don't trust him as far as I can throw him. I said something and she got really mad and told him everything. Now he hates me. Whatever.