I have been trying to do things that a mother and daughter only get to do once! So what do you do when your mother is not active in her daughters wedding? Everytime I turn around and want to do something she makes some excuse up!
Like for instance..this Saturday we were suppose to go for a wedding dress! We made plans and when I asked her what time she said she doesn't think she can because my dad wants her to help him around the house! WTH??? I was suppose to go with my sister(maid of honor) and my best friend. She hasn't helped out at all or even expierencing anything with her own daughter! I have done things with my finacee's mother and all while I was doing it she kept saying'I don't want your mom to be offended it's suppose to be a mother and daughter thing.' And my mom totally understood and told me to go anyways.
My finacee is starting to think that maybe she is not happy for us and maybe just maybe she thinks Ithat I should be marrying someone else! I think that is horrible for him to say! He NEVER said anything bad ever about my mother and loves her. But doesnt get why she is not doing things with her daughter for the wedding!
Luckliy my sister jumped in and is 110% on my side!!!
Any thoughts on this??
sweetdoublenn
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Re: Situation! What should I do?
I don't know why she is behaing like this but it is upsetting me! I caught her this morning looking a wedding dresses for me online as I was leaving for work. I think the bottom line is she knows I am moving out and going to have a wonderful future with my FH that it makes her a little sad. I am the daughther that she relies on way too much and now that is going to be taken away from her!
