Small update on my friend who said I 'stole' her wedding date...

jessicaNmike2008 Posted: Mar 07, 2008 12:22 PM

Small update on my friend who said I 'stole' her wedding date...

Backstory: a 'friend' of mine got mad at me for 'stealing' her wedding day, because it's their 2 year dating anniv and she wants to get married on that day. She wasn't engaged yet, but said it was wrong for us to get married on that date regardless.

Well... she had been big-time pressuring her boyfriend to propose on her birthday... and her birthday was yesterday.... and from what I've heard there was no ring .... and no proposal!

Am I a horrible person for being secretly happy about this?

MJDoc12 Posted: Mar 07, 2008 12:25 PM

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i think she has balls to tell you you 'stole' her date---seriously ppl are so silly sometimes.

and since she is 'pressuring' her man for a proposal---yeah i'd be a little secretly happy about the no . people should get engaged cause they WANT to--not because one is pressuring the other

Kimbalina Posted: Mar 07, 2008 12:26 PM

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Posted by jessicaNmike2008

Backstory: a 'friend' of mine got mad at me for 'stealing' her wedding day, because it's their 2 year dating anniv and she wants to get married on that day. She wasn't engaged yet, but said it was wrong for us to get married on that date regardless.

Well... she had been big-time pressuring her boyfriend to propose on her birthday... and her birthday was yesterday.... and from what I've heard there was no ring .... and no proposal!

Am I a horrible person for being secretly happy about this?

Nope I would be happy about it too! You cant pressure someone into wanting to marry you. It will only back fire in the end

yelley77 Posted: Mar 07, 2008 12:26 PM

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Posted by MJDoc12

people should get engaged cause they WANT to--not because one is pressuring the other

amen.

TrueLoveIn2008 Posted: Mar 07, 2008 12:28 PM

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2 year dating anniversary? I was dating for a little over 5 years when I got engaged. Maybe that's why the guy didn't propose yet? Maybe he's not ready??? Guys like to wait many, many years.

And anyhow - a 2 year dating annivesary is just that. A dating anniversary. I always remember the date FH and I met, and when we officially started dating .. but I don't celebrate it, and I certainly wouldn't give two sh!ts if a friend of mine wanted to get married on that date - ESPECIALLY IF I WAS NOT YET ENGAGED. People can be so ridiculous. How old is she, 17?

jessicaNmike2008 Posted: Mar 07, 2008 12:29 PM

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she is 26

LeeLee111 Posted: Mar 07, 2008 12:30 PM

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No I understand.....

bluegreen08 Posted: Mar 07, 2008 02:06 PM

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Posted by JBoothIn2008

2 year dating anniversary? I was dating for a little over 5 years when I got engaged. Maybe that's why the guy didn't propose yet? Maybe he's not ready??? Guys like to wait many, many years.

And anyhow - a 2 year dating annivesary is just that. A dating anniversary. I always remember the date FH and I met, and when we officially started dating .. but I don't celebrate it, and I certainly wouldn't give two sh!ts if a friend of mine wanted to get married on that date - ESPECIALLY IF I WAS NOT YET ENGAGED. People can be so ridiculous. How old is she, 17?

I agree! FH and I were dating just under 5 years when he proposed, and it will be 2 weeks before our 6 year anniv when we get married.

I admit I would have liked to get married on our anniv, but it just wasn't practical with my school schedule.

futuremrsfab Posted: Mar 07, 2008 02:08 PM

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yea i think its fine that your secretly happy as you can fake it when you talk to her

Cutechef729 Posted: Mar 07, 2008 02:09 PM

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I remember reading your post about this....you're allowed to be secretly happy.

hannahshim Posted: Mar 07, 2008 02:11 PM

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how can she tell you that you s tole her date when she didnt even have a ring!!!
thats sooo odd..

but thank god she didnt get engaged lol

bluegreen08 Posted: Mar 07, 2008 02:11 PM

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i just realized i never answered the Q

I would be secretly happy just dont rub it in her face.

MelissaRX06 Posted: Mar 07, 2008 02:13 PM

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I can't stand when ppl act like you 'stole' something when it wasn't even their's. If she was already engaged and already booked a hall for that date, THEN you would have stole her date. BUT she's not even engaged! You can't steal something that's not someone's to steal!

DGoldfarb0776 Posted: Mar 07, 2008 02:14 PM

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I would also be secretly happy as well but also I wouldn't rub it in her face.

Honestly it's karma coming to haunt her when she said you stole her date.

angl2001 Posted: Mar 07, 2008 02:15 PM

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hahahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaa

neener neener you didnt get a ring!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

bluegreen08 Posted: Mar 07, 2008 02:18 PM

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Posted by MelissaRX06

I can't stand when ppl act like you 'stole' something when it wasn't even their's. If she was already engaged and already booked a hall for that date, THEN you would have stole her date. BUT she's not even engaged! You can't steal something that's not someone's to steal!

i totally agree. i dont remember the details but i think the OP set her wedding date when her friend just started dating this guy?

im going to try to bump the old thread

people are so absolutely ridiculous. i cant believe things like this even happen!

MayWeddingGrl Posted: Mar 07, 2008 02:19 PM

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I can't believe she would have the nerve to say that THAT date was only reserved for her. I'm sure shes only just jealous that you are getting married and shes not even engaged. why else would she be so petty??