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SMALL UPDATE....I can't believe this! I JUST LOST MY JOB!!!!

Original post by Tatum&Steve

After 9 years of employment - I am out of a job at the end of January! I was laid off! What a SHOCK! AND MY 30th BDAY is Saturday ..


I guess I need hugs.,... I am sorry girls! I am stunned right now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

What a way to start my 07 year!
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UPDATE! 1/11 - Hey girls, I just realized this was bumped due to a FM I received, I haven't really been on this week, I have been busy feeling sorry for myself, trying to find a job and deciding what I want to do, which is still up in the air, I have two interviews in the morning, one I know am not interested in, it is further than I am now doing the same work I am currently doing...not interested, but I figure i iwll be in the area for the first interview so why not get the 'interview experience'. The first one is at a staffing agency so I am HOPING they can help me figure out a job that I iwll love, seeing as they know what kinds of jobs are out there. So anywayk, I have good days and bad days, I am trying to get through this. I really again thank you all for your support and great advice, I will look into it all!


OH ps - FH threw me an AMAZING surprise 30th bday on Saturday, It was bitter sweet but an amazing night, I really should post some pics, but I have been lazy!
kitty1224 Posted:

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See Tatum, you have all these hook ups now you will get an ever better job, making more money and what about the school thing? Never 2 late to change into another field.

Espo22 Posted:

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tonimike Posted:

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Posted by Espo22


Posted by MrsDaniRella

EDITED: I'm not quoting all that stuff b/c it's too long so I'm responding to Espo... did I make myself clear that time??

OK girl- you have some issues.

First of all, what I am not understanding is WHY you are thinking that this is directed at you (besides your reasons) when a. I'm TELLING YOU it is NOT directed at you and b. I never quoted you... This is me, stating for the record that it was a coincidence so back off... Stop hijacking Tatum's thread that's about HER! I'm trying to be extra supportive b/c she is an awesome girl who has been there for me in so many ways in the past...

Second, why are you bringing up something that happened in the past on another board, about a totally different topic?? That has NOTHING to do with this... You need to get the chip off your shoulder and stop thinking that the world revolves around you-- Believe me, I don't even give you a second thought when posting-- I don't even know you and you are not an 07er so I never even met you at any of the G2G's.

If you don't like my posts- whether I'm saying the same thing or not then don't read them or respond to them... I have no problem with your posts and it really doesn't matter to me. If you don't care why do you keep going on about this on HER post about HER situation in losing her job??

You need to just move on or build a bridge and get over it.

I'm so sorry Tatum!



Hmmm so then why don't you just say it was a coincidence and leave it at that, but no like you have started drama before you go on and on and say things like this.

I have the chip on my shoulder? its funny bc when you came on our board and started with EVERYONE!!! i got fm's about you and people said how you were a drama queen and always starting ****...so hmmm wonder why i would think that when i took YOUR quote and said to NOT use your advice, and then you went on and on about how you were right, hmmm yeah not so difficult to understand it now is it.

BUT despite all of that, I just wanted to show that i didn't think you were wrong, and that what i said probably came out the wrong way, and that yes the sites you recommended did work just sometimes took time, I WAS ACTUALLY DOING THE NICE THING!!!!!!! even though i thought it was meant towards me and not because i think the world revolves around me but for OBVIOUS reasons..

I already said twice I DONT CARE about this and you kept going on...You said what you had to say, and i said what i had to say, so thats it, its called a mistake, it was a misunderstanding, if its not what you meant then just say that and this would've been over with...Again i dont care and dont care to respond to anymore of your posts.

ALSO I said quite a few posts ago that this isn't about a debate but about helping tatum so to drop it so why are you saying exactly what i said a while ago




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Tatum&Steve Posted:

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Girls, I am sorry, I never get involved when people have dissagreements but this time I will. I only ask that you stop because I really don't want this thread to get pulled, there are posts here with great ideas and people who have mentioned connections. Not only that, I want this as a reference when I need to put a smile on my face. There is a lot of support here and I need it now seeing as I am BALLING MY EYES OUT!

Espo22 Posted:

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You are right, i will edit my posts and delete what i wrote...Sorry TATUM

kitty1224 Posted:

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No crying just think of Alana in that funny hat .
nycgirl79 Posted:

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I'm so sorry.
Tatum&Steve Posted:

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Thank you Denise! I will contact you when I can stop the water works!
tomsgirl07 Posted:

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OMG! I am so sorry.
Tatum&Steve Posted:

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Posted by ik1

No crying just think of Alana in that funny hat .



Thanks! Only problem NOW is that I am SOOOOOOOOO EXHUSTED from crying! I am SUPER TIRED and I just wanna SLEEP, I am just drained.....
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Tatum&Steve

Thank you Denise! I will contact you when I can stop the water works!



You're welcome...Ok good luck and hopefully she can help you out
Lools Posted:

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sounds cliche but when one door closes another opens. It will work out.
Tatum&Steve Posted:

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I just wanted to say thank you to ALL of you for your support! It has certainly helped me this afternoon...I can't wait until I can feel better about this and this horrible feeling is gone.....
SeptBride70 Posted:

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Posted by Tatum&Steve

Girls, I am sorry, I never get involved when people have dissagreements but this time I will. I only ask that you stop because I really don't want this thread to get pulled, there are posts here with great ideas and people who have mentioned connections. Not only that, I want this as a reference when I need to put a smile on my face. There is a lot of support here and I need it now seeing as I am BALLING MY EYES OUT!



Of course Tatum- I stopped a while back b/c from the beginning I was the one that kept reiterating that this was about YOU and that you need us and our support!!!

I hope you feel better soon-- can I post something that will make you stop crying?? I hope so...

Remember him?? I hope that makes you chuckle!!!
Tatum&Steve Posted:

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Posted by MrsDaniRella


Posted by Tatum&Steve

Girls, I am sorry, I never get involved when people have dissagreements but this time I will. I only ask that you stop because I really don't want this thread to get pulled, there are posts here with great ideas and people who have mentioned connections. Not only that, I want this as a reference when I need to put a smile on my face. There is a lot of support here and I need it now seeing as I am BALLING MY EYES OUT!



Of course Tatum- I stopped a while back b/c from the beginning I was the one that kept reiterating that this was about YOU and that you need us and our support!!!

I hope you feel better soon-- can I post something that will make you stop crying?? I hope so...

Remember him?? I hope that makes you chuckle!!!



I Love that lack of fuzzball!
He's so freakin cute - SERIOUSLY!
Future Mrs R Posted:

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AMJA Posted:

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Tatum I'm so sorry!
Everything happens for a reason. There's a better job waiting for ya out there.

Bad timing, but what are ya gonna do? Take some time to gather yourself, since your lucky enough to have severance pay. Get those resumes out there, you'll get a job in no time
PegaLega Posted:

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IM sorry Tatum, that stinks! jerks
StarryEyedBride Posted:

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ohmigod, I'm soo sorry!
ziamaria Posted:

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so sorry to hear that...it su cks

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