So an 08 thread caught my attention...

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Dec 13, 2007 03:39 PM

So an 08 thread caught my attention...

One chick is getting cold feet, but then mentioned that she enjoyed harmless flirtin still and even hides her ring....

Now I have a question for you gurls... Do you still flirt???

I am like the total opposite... If I know I'm no longer able to put my hands on another guy (havent been for quite some time so maybe i'm over all that) BUT I dont want them flirting with me whatsoever... I dont find it cute... It doesnt do anything for me... I'm actually the b*tch in the club/bar that will tell you where to go and shove the rock in your face...

meli722 Posted: Dec 13, 2007 03:42 PM

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after i got engaged i actually stop flirting
i like to show my rings to guys lol
every single guy who has tried to talk to me since ive gotten engaged gets the flash of the ring

but i did flirt before i got engaged, its harmless, and i did it...i think alot of girls like to feel like they are still wanted and good looking lol

Cacarina Posted: Dec 13, 2007 04:00 PM

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I don't flirt with other guys. However, I will talk with guys at bars. I also won't flash my ring in their face, unless they say or do something that I feel they need to know I am engaged. But its not like I will lead a guy on or not talk about my FH. But that being said, when I go out to bars, FH is usually with me anways.

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Dec 13, 2007 04:04 PM

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Honestly, I'm hardly ever out without fh to get the chance to flirt but I was never one of those flirty girls. I dont miss having to act interested.

I edited my post and took stupid out (if you care). People that flirt aren't stupid. That was mean.

Nelle5757 Posted: Dec 13, 2007 04:08 PM

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I don't think I flirt. I am an outgoing person and I talk to everyone. I always have a point of bring up FH, so I guess they know I am not interested. When they don't get it then I would flash the rock.

Nelle5757 Posted: Dec 13, 2007 04:09 PM

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I would never hide my engagement ring. I don't know who this chick is, but its wrong.

ellyoxox Posted: Dec 13, 2007 04:09 PM

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i'll occasionally just playfully flirt w/guys that i know.. but if i'm out at a bar or something and some random guy comes up to me i'm usually a complete biotch and i totally blow them off. i feel bad sometimes but i'm just like whatever leave me alone lol

LnF0405 Posted: Dec 13, 2007 04:17 PM

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Sometimes I flirt and I think is completely normal for someone to go through that situation of cold feet special been so closed to their wedding date, I am flirty and FH know I am like that but as long as is something once in a blue and you dont go beyond with it I dont see anything wrong... Some people probably will say that I wouldnt like if it is FH but I trust FH 100% and he trust me and by the way the other day he call me on his way from work telling me how this lady was flirting with him and it was so obvious I took it as a joke.
I really think that everyone react different ways and as we approach more to the wedding date those cold feet are going to start but only because of what marrige means. just my opinion

meli722 Posted: Dec 13, 2007 04:21 PM

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Posted by Nelle5757

I would never hide my engagement ring. I don't know who this chick is, but its wrong.

i love mine =) i like showing it not hiding it lol but everyone is different

Ann 52409 Posted: Dec 13, 2007 04:24 PM

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Honestly.. i guess I flirt...... I talk to guys all the time, I am very friendly but, i never hide my ring and I am not ashamed to talk about FH.

tye85 Posted: Dec 13, 2007 04:30 PM

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I flirt with my friends that r guys but Fh knows i do that cuz i did it b4 we got engaged or even met. It is harmless , most of my friends r boys n thats just how we interact.

meshelly Posted: Dec 13, 2007 04:31 PM

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Ok so I occassionally flirt. I always was a big flirt so I really cant help it. My FH is a real flirt too!! So with us we know there is a line we NEVER cross and if someone acts remotely interested I tell them no way Im in love and engaged sorry!!!
Its def weird tho. Im the first of my friends to be engaged and my three best friends are single and always looking for boys....Just because Im engaged doesnt mean my life stops. I still out out with my girls once a month in the city to bar hop and dance ( I luv to dance!!) I just stear clear of the boys who wants to buy me drinks, talking fine, drinks no good! Never would I hide my ring!!! Thats completely insane to me!

Nelle5757 Posted: Dec 13, 2007 04:50 PM

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Innocent flirting is okay, but hiding the ring makes it seem wrong. Thats all I meant by my last post. Just my opinion. I just read the the thread have a better understanding of what it was about.

Summertimegal424 Posted: Dec 13, 2007 04:54 PM

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i can't even talk to another guy! i get all nervous and **** like fh is watching and will get mad! ha

novia26 Posted: Dec 13, 2007 04:54 PM

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

One chick is getting cold feet, but then mentioned that she enjoyed harmless flirtin still and even hides her ring....

Now I have a question for you gurls... Do you still flirt???

I am like the total opposite... If I know I'm no longer able to put my hands on another guy (havent been for quite some time so maybe i'm over all that) BUT I dont want them flirting with me whatsoever... I dont find it cute... It doesnt do anything for me... I'm actually the b*tch in the club/bar that will tell you where to go and shove the rock in your face...

you have fm

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Dec 13, 2007 05:04 PM

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LOL I read your Fm and I find that soo funny... I was just bringin up a situation to see how you guys felt about it cuz god knows if i would have posted something OPPOSITE from what they were saying on their thread, they wouldnt jumped down my throat anyways... If you dont want people to commenting you on your posts either pos or neg, then you shouldnt write that

Summertimegal424 Posted: Dec 13, 2007 05:07 PM

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w-t-f is goin on lol im so lost

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Dec 13, 2007 05:12 PM

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Posted by COwens424

w-t-f is goin on lol im so lost

colleen... i will FM you ...

longislandlibrarian Posted: Dec 13, 2007 05:19 PM

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i don't think innocent flirting is HARMFUL if it's really innocent... i am not a flirt because I WANT TO FLIRT.. I am outgoing and that can often be misunderstood as FLIRTING....

LegoBride Posted: Dec 13, 2007 05:22 PM

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As long as you don't act on your flirations all is well. FH is probably the most fliratious (spelling - yikes!) that I have ever met and I LOVE that about him. Some girls he dated couldn't handle it but I think its hot - I like that he is so outgoing - our personalities work so well off each other plus we both know who were are going home with. Flirting is fun - sometimes its a result of nervousness esp for me. I know it sounds odd but its true