One chick is getting cold feet, but then mentioned that she enjoyed harmless flirtin still and even hides her ring....
Now I have a question for you gurls... Do you still flirt???
I am like the total opposite... If I know I'm no longer able to put my hands on another guy (havent been for quite some time so maybe i'm over all that) BUT I dont want them flirting with me whatsoever... I dont find it cute... It doesnt do anything for me... I'm actually the b*tch in the club/bar that will tell you where to go and shove the rock in your face...
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I dont flirt with guys, not before we were engaged and not after. IMO it's a bit disrepectful I would get mad if FH did that so I would never.
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I dont flirt with guys, not before we were engaged and not after. IMO it's a bit disrepectful I would get mad if FH did that so I would never.
i feel the same way... I even thought FH being wingman for one of his friends was bad enough for me... He has a ton of single friends, but he was the one called on to do the job... Didnt make much sense to me... I wouldnt do it for one of my friends b/c I just wouldnt 'feel right'
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Posted by JKFris09
I dont flirt with guys, not before we were engaged and not after. IMO it's a bit disrepectful I would get mad if FH did that so I would never.
i feel the same way... I even thought FH being wingman for one of his friends was bad enough for me... He has a ton of single friends, but he was the one called on to do the job... Didnt make much sense to me... I wouldnt do it for one of my friends b/c I just wouldnt 'feel right'
I know what you mean, I wouldn't do it for one of my friends either.
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I was gone for an hour and i feel so lost
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I havent gone out without FH to flirt but, I am but, that is my personality...outgoing and bubbly LIBRA. Fh is a natural flirt as well. But, I am not saying I am going to go out and do this either.
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Once that ring was on my finger I don't flirt....not that i did before hand but I feel like anytime comes near me I show the ring!
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Once that ring was on my finger I don't flirt....not that i did before hand but I feel like anytime comes near me I show the ring!
Glad i'm not alone It meant alot to me before i had the ring and now im just THAT much more serious about it! I really do hate guys comin up to me... I had one come in between me & FH and ask me if i wanted to dance... I made a motion to let him know that I was with FH and he still didnt get the hint so thats when i broke out the ring... Then he left me alone... Like is that what it takes??? Sometimes, they still dont leave you alone!
kabo0831
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i dont still flirt, we can still look ladies we are not dead you know.
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I haven't flirted with an attractive, available same-aged person in ages! My bar customers however, flirt like crazy but I don't mind, they're harmless! Their first question is 'How's Tim?' But ya gotta play the game as a bartender. I definitely don't flirt when I am out without FH...it's way too weird and I don't enjoy it. I am done with dating and flirting!
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I don't really flirt anymore----If a guy comes up to me I would talk to him but if he was annoying i would tell him to go away---my FH means the world to me and I wouldn't do anything to hurt him
haha i'm a b*tch to any guy that comes up to me when i have a BF or now FH! lol... i feel really bad for them afterwards because they try so hard... oh well... i dont flirt... cuz i wouldn't want FH to do the same...
so what happened... this thread and the other one went totally over my head!! lol
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I never really go out but just going to the grocery store or walking around I get hit on and I get SOOOOOO ANGRY! I'm a TOTAL snobby B*tch when it comes to that.
A couple of months ago I had a worker from Best Buy (while I had my ring and as usual my Future Mrs. Sweatshirt) and he came outside after walked out of the store and tried to give me his number....I asked him if he was seriously dumb or just blind? AND HE STILL TRIED TALKING TO ME! I called FH when I got into the car and he laughed and said he was going to start making me Buttons w/ his picture on it w/ a scary face on so the guys would leave me alone.
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What happened to the original 08 thread?
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What happened to the original 08 thread?
I don't see it?
Jflod710
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i flirt but u can hide a human emotion! i dont go extreme and put my hands all over a guy! its not b/c i dont love my fh!
beram63
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i don't really flirt bc it's not really in my nature to do so. i don't feel weird about talking to guys; as long as they're not taking it too far, regardless of what their motives are, it's just talking.
in general, i think you should only behave in a way that (1) you would still be comfortable with if fh was standing right there bc anything else is edging toward dishonesty, and (2) you'd be okay with if fh was doing the same thing while out with his friends.
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One chick is getting cold feet, but then mentioned that she enjoyed harmless flirtin still and even hides her ring....
Now I have a question for you gurls... Do you still flirt???
I am like the total opposite... If I know I'm no longer able to put my hands on another guy (havent been for quite some time so maybe i'm over all that) BUT I dont want them flirting with me whatsoever... I dont find it cute... It doesnt do anything for me... I'm actually the b*tch in the club/bar that will tell you where to go and shove the rock in your face...
Yes thats me. Or, Ill have my friends say 'No, shes married' lmao
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harmless flirting is okay but I would never do anything that would jepordize what I have! I am much too happy with my FH, after all he is my souldmate!
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I never was a flirter while we were dating. But if he pissed me off, I would get dressed up, go some place fabulous with my girls, and let guys try to talk to me, by me drinks, etc. I always let them know I was taken though. That pissed many guys off! It made me feel good, and reminded me that if he kept acting crazy there were plenty of men out there!
That was a long time ago though. Since we moved in together and got engaged, thats all changed.
