i have one BM in my bridal party that i feel like in the past few months- has no tiem for anything- i barely talk to her and she has fallen off the chart- havent seen her- and calling her- haha she doesnt answer the phone
im at the point where i feel like telling her goodbye--- she just hasnt been afriend to me lately
am i wrong for doing this? if the wedding wasnt involved- we wouldnt be friends- we havent spoken to eachother--- so do i give it the boot or try to talk to her?
what should i do??
harts2976
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If you wouldn't even be friends if the wedding wasn't going on then maybe its for the best to part ways. I mean some people have a lot going on but should still have time to have dinner once in a while, make a phone call or what not. It's your call obviously but if you are already feeling this then better now than later
amandamichael
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i just feel like shes totally fallen off the earth--- no calls- ive made plans with her- she cancels last minute- shes just not around and its like i get everyone has their own life---but if ur not a part of my life- why be a part of my wedding which is such a hugeeeeee part of my life
its just so damn frustrating
harts2976
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gabi? lol
April_Luv
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ok- if it werent for the wedding you guys wouldnt be friends??? but your asking her to stand next to you on the most important day of your life?? no way -she would have to go. she shouldnt have been ask to play such an important role in the first place. Prime example of what she is doing right now. she doesnt care! so why should you! Get her out of there...
amandamichael
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wel- we were a lot closer when i chose my bridal party--and she now is back with a loser boyfriend and we never speak to eachother-- its just like--- the girls have gotten their dresses already- and deep down i love the girl but she doenst call anymore bc shes with him doesnt answer her phone we make plans and she blows me off and its just like--- this is too big in my life for me to be aggravated about it all the time
like if ur not my friend- then get out of my life
im just so frustrated and torn---i wasnt even gunna post it incase this got back to anyone-- but its such a big decision for me and i really dont know what to do about it anymore
