so annoyed

Original post by vmystique33

Nov 09, 2006 10:36 AM

When i took my mother and fmil to see my gown the first thing they both said was 'are you going to keep the flowers on the back'? but they both said it as if they didnt like it now im having second thoughts about it but i already put half down so there is no going back Im just so confused i love it then i remember what they said then it gets me thinking if everyone is going to think that.Thanks for listening .The pic is in my album my roses on the back are white and my detailing is silver not gold

Maybride07 Posted: Nov 09, 2006 12:36 PM

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I think its beautiful and very unique!! Its your dress, and your day.

Shmar Posted: Nov 09, 2006 12:53 PM

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Dont listen to them Your dress is beautiful. I actually really like the flowers. It gives it character.

MattandTricia07 Posted: Nov 09, 2006 01:38 PM

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oh my goodness, I absolutely LOVE LOVE LOVE the flowers on the back!!!!!!!!!

NF622 Posted: Nov 09, 2006 04:07 PM

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I like the flowers, its different. If you like it, keep it. You're the one who has to where it and be happy with it. I think you're gonna look fabulous!

StarryEyedBride Posted: Nov 09, 2006 04:17 PM

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the only thing that matters is that YOU love it. and you did... don't listen to other people. i thought people would think my dress was too sexy or too much... but it doesn't matter. when you think about what they said... just remember how you feel in that gown and know that everything will be perfect!!!!

shopaholic07 Posted: Nov 10, 2006 04:10 PM

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Your dress is beautiful!!!

SN2BMRSBURTE Posted: Nov 10, 2006 04:35 PM

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I love the roses too, I love the whole dress

PegaLega Posted: Nov 10, 2006 05:12 PM

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I think the dress is gorgeous just the way it is-and I like the flowers on the back!

vmystique33 Posted: Nov 10, 2006 05:15 PM

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Thank you guys soooo much you guys helped me fall back in love w/ my dress

eunicsd006 Posted: Nov 10, 2006 08:00 PM

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i personally think the flowers are too chunky and dont like it myself but thats my opinion.....the only opinion that counts its urs if u love it keep the flowers....u can always just have the flowers removed if u change ur mind

MimiMcG Posted: Nov 10, 2006 08:56 PM

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I just looked at your dress, and it is Gorgeous!!! Remember, it is your wedding, and your dress, and will be on your body. I love the design, it is both elegant and beautiful, and is removed from the same old, same old. You did a great job finding your dress, and it is beautiful!!!!

Don't let anyone change your mind, you know how you felt when you first saw your dress, and tried it on. Remember that feeling!!!

sunflower13 Posted: Nov 10, 2006 09:07 PM

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I LOVE that detail. I think it is different and unique. It should make you happy and who cares about anyone else.You will be a beautiful bride.

LImama Posted: Nov 10, 2006 10:09 PM

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I LOVE the flowers on your dress!! I'm surprised you mom and FMIL felt that way, and sorry they made you second-guess your choice.

I have to tell you, my daughter tried on that dress, didn't happen to be her style, but I couldn't get over how beautiful the flowers were on the back!! The dresses she tried on after that I kept saying could we add those flowers??

Keep them, they are so unique and beautiful!
Best wishes!

vmystique33 Posted: Nov 11, 2006 03:06 AM

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Posted by eunicsd006

i personally think the flowers are too chunky and dont like it myself but thats my opinion.....the only opinion that counts its urs if u love it keep the flowers....u can always just have the flowers removed if u change ur mind

Ok I wrote this post because my mother and fmil hurt my feelings and i knew the girls in here would be supportive and make me feel better that deinfately didnt help .Maybe your a very upfront person . Maybe i am a very emotional person who tends to get her feelings hurt easier I personally think you should have maybe said it isnt your style but not to go into description of why you didnt like or maybe you should of left it alone.

Fiance26 Posted: Nov 11, 2006 07:33 AM

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Your dress is so stunning. I absolutely love it. I love the flowers in the back as well. Dont let what anyone says change your mind on something. If you feel that this dress is the one then I say go for it.

Future Mrs. Posted: Nov 11, 2006 08:33 AM

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where is the link to the dress? I have flowers on mine too....I'm sure its beautiful

Future Mrs. Posted: Nov 11, 2006 08:36 AM

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I just checked out your dress....I LOVE THE FLOWERS. I think its a special detail that makes the dress what it is....DO NOT REMOVE THE FLOWERS!!!!!! I love them.
I have the opposite problem b/c mydress is totally plain and I wish I had some special detail on it.......I love your flowers and you will look MAGNIFICENT in the dress.

werock0709 Posted: Nov 11, 2006 08:59 AM

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'I don't know what their talkin about. The dress is stunning! Leave the flowers. I love em. And if you do, it's your day, so keep them.'. I also left this in your alblum

sami Posted: Nov 11, 2006 09:02 AM

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Hi.. Sorry to crash your board (06 is a little quiet)
anyway your dress is very pretty the flowers look very pretty and add detail.. and it is different!

Marly Posted: Nov 11, 2006 09:07 AM

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Posted by Maybride07

I think its beautiful and very unique!! Its your dress, and your day.

Well said!!!!!!! I agree 100%. You are the Bride not them, it's the dress that you want. Your going to look Beautiful on your wedding day in that dress.