so annoyed

vmystique33 Posted: Nov 09, 2006 10:36 AM

so annoyed

When i took my mother and fmil to see my gown the first thing they both said was 'are you going to keep the flowers on the back'? but they both said it as if they didnt like it now im having second thoughts about it but i already put half down so there is no going back Im just so confused i love it then i remember what they said then it gets me thinking if everyone is going to think that.Thanks for listening .The pic is in my album my roses on the back are white and my detailing is silver not gold

lilqtpie2181 Posted: Nov 09, 2006 10:38 AM

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I like the flower detail on the back. I thik it adds something to the dress.

MJDoc12 Posted: Nov 09, 2006 10:40 AM

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do you LOVE it??

if you do...then don't let them sway you! it's YOUR dress and you're the one who will wear it.

i think it will look great!

Das142 Posted: Nov 09, 2006 10:40 AM

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I really like the flowers on the back!!! I think it adds a nice touch!!!

vmystique33 Posted: Nov 09, 2006 10:41 AM

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Well thats the thing i did love it until they said that

heatherandrichie Posted: Nov 09, 2006 10:42 AM

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I like it. If you love it is all that matters.

Yecala27 Posted: Nov 09, 2006 10:46 AM

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very nice gown I like the flowers on the back it goes with the design in the front.
About you taking your Family to see your gown is a No, No,No,No. That happened to me when i first bought my gown and i took them after i paid for it they didn't like it and i ended up buying another one. That *****
If you love it keep it i made the mistake of lisening to them.

lilqtpie2181 Posted: Nov 09, 2006 10:47 AM

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Posted by vmystique33

Well thats the thing i did love it until they said that

dont let anyone sway ur judgment. Its ur dress ur day.. if u love it then thats all that matters

kahlua716 Posted: Nov 09, 2006 10:48 AM

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I love the flowers...they make the dress very unique...trust your gut instinct...that's why you ordered the dress in the first place!

jenjenr Posted: Nov 09, 2006 10:52 AM

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Love the flowers, they are not overpowering or anything...they def go with the design of the dress...

leshellem Posted: Nov 09, 2006 10:56 AM

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i personally love the flowers, very unique. Just remember they are from an older school of thought where someone wouldn't do that, but this is not the thought of today. It will work just find. I think its gorgeous.

vmystique33 Posted: Nov 09, 2006 10:57 AM

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thank you everyone!!!!I appreciate it

OrangeGrl Posted: Nov 09, 2006 11:00 AM

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Awe I think it's pretty!!! Leave the flowers if you like them, it's YOUR dress!!!

DNicholes Posted: Nov 09, 2006 11:05 AM

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I really like the flowers.....

My dress has a flower thing on it too...& at first we were all like hmmmmmm....but after really looking at it and taking a step back....those little details make the dress...& I LOVE the flowers on my dress.

If you love it, that's all that matters!

EGreene79 Posted: Nov 09, 2006 11:44 AM

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I understand how you feel. Anytime someone criticizes something in my wedding I start second guessing myself for a few days, but I always come back to 'I chose it because I love it.'

Try to get past what they said. If you love it, that's all that matters!

JassyandOscar Posted: Nov 09, 2006 11:48 AM

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Posted by lilqtpie2181

I like the flower detail on the back. I thik it adds something to the dress.

I agree!!! It is beautiful. Go with you gut...remember its your wedding!!!

neener1211 Posted: Nov 09, 2006 11:53 AM

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I am not one for bows or flowers attached to a dress...but I think that dress would look nice with or withought the flowers....

beautiful dress by the way.

aprlflwr Posted: Nov 09, 2006 12:02 PM

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The dress is gorgeous as is. The flowers match the front perfectly. Don't second guess yourself. You liked that dress for a reason!!!!

vmystique33 Posted: Nov 09, 2006 12:10 PM

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thank you!its so hard not to second guess yourself but i have learned a lesson and that is im only sharing my wedding moments with you guys

hmv12 Posted: Nov 09, 2006 12:15 PM

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HELL NO... KEEP THOSE ROSES, I think that it adds to the beauty of the back. I think it will be beautiful!!! Remember your day, your memories, your happiness...