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so annoyed

Original post by vmystique33

When i took my mother and fmil to see my gown the first thing they both said was 'are you going to keep the flowers on the back'? but they both said it as if they didnt like it now im having second thoughts about it but i already put half down so there is no going back Im just so confused i love it then i remember what they said then it gets me thinking if everyone is going to think that.Thanks for listening .The pic is in my album my roses on the back are white and my detailing is silver not gold
sunshine1813 Posted:

Re: so annoyed-please no more bad comments thx

You dress is beautiful and as long as you love it that's ALL that matters.

mskittynj Posted:

Re: so annoyed-please no more bad comments thx

I understand, I picked out my dress too early and then I regretted doign so, but it was too late and I couldn't do anythign without loosing money. If you liked it WHO CARES about what they think!!!!
You will look beautiful no matter what!
XOXOXO
Kitty
eunicsd006 Posted:

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Posted by vmystique33


Posted by eunicsd006

i personally think the flowers are too chunky and dont like it myself but thats my opinion.....the only opinion that counts its urs if u love it keep the flowers....u can always just have the flowers removed if u change ur mind




Ok I wrote this post because my mother and fmil hurt my feelings and i knew the girls in here would be supportive and make me feel better that deinfately didnt help .Maybe your a very upfront person . Maybe i am a very emotional person who tends to get her feelings hurt easier I personally think you should have maybe said it isnt your style but not to go into description of why you didnt like or maybe you should of left it alone




like i said only ur opinion count......and ur right i am up front but thats because id rather tell u my true feelings rather than say to u oh its a unique dress or something fake like that....the dress is gorgeous.big deal if i dont like the roses...and u have to remember there are gonna be some people that arent going to like it ......but this is a choice that u should make on ur own not be persuaded by anyone....like i said before if u love it buy the dress ur the one that has to wear it no one else........so the question is do u love the dress????? becuase if u do ....then dont worry about what other people say...
by the way i do apologize if i hurt ur feelings....
Snowflake08 Posted:

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i think it is very pretty

Mikeysgirl Posted:

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I like the flowers! You should keep them!

iBCraZ131 Posted:

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Posted by lilqtpie2181

I like the flower detail on the back. I thik it adds something to the dress.



I agree!
ellebelle1 Posted:

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You can't take comments that people make so personally. If you do, you will always go through life feeling sad and angry because you think others do not approve. Only you can make yourself feel better. Be confident in your decisions and you won't care what others think of you.

vmystique33 Posted:

Re: so annoyed-please no more bad comments thx

Thank you for appologizing i appreciate it .To tell you the truth im really not like this I just think its b/c its my wedding day and i have been to soooo many others and i have seen people bashing the brides gown and i dont want that so even if people are being fake thats ok w/me b/c to me its not being fake its just people trying to help put a smile on my face and not feel so bad about what bad things people say ( cant really say i worded everything right but i hope you get the idea)

vmystique33 Posted:

Re: so annoyed-please no more bad comments thx


Posted by ellebelle1

You can't take comments that people make so personally. If you do, you will always go through life feeling sad and angry because you think others do not approve. Only you can make yourself feel better. Be confident in your decisions and you won't care what others think of you.





your absolutely right!!
ejm1219 Posted:

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I think it makes the dress unique!

snydl40 Posted:

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Don't listen to them-you fell in love with the dress because YOU loved it.

cmrcmr0430 Posted:

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My dress has flowers on the back too...Don't listen to anyone. You are going to look very beautiful! Check out my pictures! I love your dress pics!

shelby34 Posted:

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I love the dress and I think the flowers are elegant and add a nice touch to the back.
If you love it, definetely stick with it. Sometimes our parents can have different taste than us...it might be a generation thing. Plus, if everyone on here loves it too, then no one is going to be thinking what your family said.
It is gorgeous!
Mooshyboo Posted:

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it is very pretty ~ I am not a flower person (on things) and I think it looks very pretty! If you LOVE it that is what counts!!

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