So for all of us that have FMIL problems......................

I would You guys come to the conclusion that you dont want her to participate at all and let him talk to her and tell her. I would also make sure he tells her exactly why.

What is her problem? You are the sweetest little thing ever. Just smile at her

ohhh do i know how you feelll

ive got the devil in the flesh my life

i dont know it is with these woman
maybe its a fear of letting go
i know for me, fmil is controlingggggg and jealous, and loosing control and his attention is what started this

its crazy, its never going to go away

but everyday i keep telling myself that shes the one that is going to loose

that she is only making my relationship stronger
and that as long as i pretend to be the bigger person to FH and have you girls to vent too, shell never win

it shouldnt be a game
but it is, one that ive already won and she lost a long time ago

its sad, i feel bad for the boys--- really. but worse i feel bad for my future kids- bc if this is how she is towards me, they wont even know her

at the end of the day, love conquers all ya know--- just try to ingore the psycho

maybe by the time you get to the wedding someone else will have committed her

haha well, one can hope cant you

dont you think we should be able to bring them into a padded cell--- meee
meee
i do

ren, im here if you wanna vent- we all know my fmil is insane

Ren, Ren, Ren..... as soon as you get married MOVE, MOVE, MOVE at least two hours away from her. Oh, and don't have an a guest room. either

i havent figured that out yet

FMIL doesnt even know that we are going to mexico in sept...let alone know that we are planning our wedding there

soooooo maybe she won't even go

and yeah amanda is right....i feel bad for the boys!

its not nice to do to them!!! my heart breaks for FH

we have to be the bigger person and support FH and not give in to them

and yes it is 100% a jealousy and umbilical cord issue...they just dont want to let go and they see us as 'stealing' their sons

so so so sad!

just be cordial and kill her with kindness!

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Posted by angelatp

Ren, Ren, Ren..... as soon as you get married MOVE, MOVE, MOVE at least two hours away from her. Oh, and don't have an a guest room. either

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lol that is my FHs solution to his mother! he tells me all the time he wants to move far away!

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Posted by amandamichael

ohhh do i know how you feelll

ive got the devil in the flesh my life

i dont know it is with these woman
maybe its a fear of letting go
i know for me, fmil is controlingggggg and jealous, and loosing control and his attention is what started this

its crazy, its never going to go away

but everyday i keep telling myself that shes the one that is going to loose

that she is only making my relationship stronger
and that as long as i pretend to be the bigger person to FH and have you girls to vent too, shell never win

it shouldnt be a game
but it is, one that ive already won and she lost a long time ago

its sad, i feel bad for the boys--- really. but worse i feel bad for my future kids- bc if this is how she is towards me, they wont even know her

at the end of the day, love conquers all ya know--- just try to ingore the psycho

maybe by the time you get to the wedding someone else will have committed her

haha well, one can hope cant you

dont you think we should be able to bring them into a padded cell--- meee
meee
i do

ren, im here if you wanna vent- we all know my fmil is insane

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Thanks girls, it's jealousy and it hurts me to know that she is this way. The reason y I say this, is because I thought everything was solved then FH tells me he saw the christmas plate my mother made them that they always use on top of a pile of his stuff, she just loves to dig and be a passive aggressive person!!!!!!! Everything she does is to get under peoples skin!!! She tells me things that she shouldn't say as a mother, like don't tell danny but his sister told me she doesn't want to be in the wedding!!! She said he has changed and maybe he has, so what don't you want better for your son!!!!!!!!! FH still won't tell me what she said about me and I wanna know!!!!!!!! I never did one thing to that psycho!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It really breaks my heart, I know i shouldn't let her get to me but she is!!!! How am I suppose to smile at her on my wedding day????????

Omg!!!!
U kiddin me? Wow...

Why are FMIL like that????

i think almost all of us have little problems at least with the FMIL!!!

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Posted by rendel

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Posted by amandamichael

ohhh do i know how you feelll

ive got the devil in the flesh my life

i dont know it is with these woman
maybe its a fear of letting go
i know for me, fmil is controlingggggg and jealous, and loosing control and his attention is what started this

its crazy, its never going to go away

but everyday i keep telling myself that shes the one that is going to loose

that she is only making my relationship stronger
and that as long as i pretend to be the bigger person to FH and have you girls to vent too, shell never win

it shouldnt be a game
but it is, one that ive already won and she lost a long time ago

its sad, i feel bad for the boys--- really. but worse i feel bad for my future kids- bc if this is how she is towards me, they wont even know her

at the end of the day, love conquers all ya know--- just try to ingore the psycho

maybe by the time you get to the wedding someone else will have committed her

haha well, one can hope cant you

dont you think we should be able to bring them into a padded cell--- meee
meee
i do

ren, im here if you wanna vent- we all know my fmil is insane

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Thanks girls, it's jealousy and it hurts me to know that she is this way. The reason y I say this, is because I thought everything was solved then FH tells me he saw the christmas plate my mother made them that they always use on top of a pile of his stuff, she just loves to dig and be a passive aggressive person!!!!!!! Everything she does is to get under peoples skin!!! She tells me things that she shouldn't say as a mother, like don't tell danny but his sister told me she doesn't want to be in the wedding!!! She said he has changed and maybe he has, so what don't you want better for your son!!!!!!!!! FH still won't tell me what she said about me and I wanna know!!!!!!!! I never did one thing to that psycho!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It really breaks my heart, I know i shouldn't let her get to me but she is!!!! How am I suppose to smile at her on my wedding day????????

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haha im the same way, except i realized i just plan on ignoring her and then putting her at the end of all my photos so i can cut the devil out

awww I'm sorry to hear that Ren some people can't be a pain on the neck sometimes