So, how do you let negative comments roll off your back??
Original post by Mrs Z To Be
Please help. I'm very hormonal, so that could be playing a part in this, BUT, there are certain people that since I have gotten engaged are just rude and nasty. I realize that this is their issue, but it's eating away at me!!! I KNOW that minimizing time spent is the only option, but I l already do that, and it often cannot be avoided. I am basically asking, how do you cope with difficult, negative people in a way that works for you?? I'm a very emotional and intense person, that likes to speak my mind, but I HATE fighting, but at the same time, I can't just 'let it roll' all the time!!!!
EmiNoa628
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Re: So, how do you let negative comments roll off your back??
I reckon with Gina.. I used to let CORNY things bother me.. Especially STUPID comments... I let everything slide now because I just sit down and enjoy the show when they slip and fall!!!! ... God is always on my side and I feel blessed with everything is my life...
Some ppl in this world have no PURPOSE... Just to make other ppl annoyed and aggrevated... Just brush your shoulders and roll your eyes... or do what I do ... 'Kill them with KINDNESS!!!'...
drivwal
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Some people are miserable and like to bring others down. There's nothing you can do about that just stay strong and know that the only thing that matters is that you are happy and that your FH is happy. You can't please everyone and you won't so do what you want and that's what matters. Stay strong and don't worry about negativity, get what you want and you'll be happy.
cainaa1
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I try to let little things roll off my back, but sometimes i just say to people well that is what FH and I want and it doesn't really matter what anyone else thinks. I have been dealing with lots of comments about how I should do everything and about the date we chose. At first I let it go, now I just say to them that the date works for us and if they dont' like it they don't have to come.
Over little stuff I try to let it go because I try to pick my battles, but when people are constantly being negative I just tell them it doesn't matter to me what they think.
