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So I spoke to my florist yesterday.......Update!!

deed766 Posted:

So I spoke to my florist yesterday.......Update!!

about completely changing the centerpieces and it really didn't go over too well. She came out real nasty and said something like 'Well....since it is really your fiance's decision, then perhaps we should wait until he is available. When she said that with that nasty attitude, I felt like i wanted to jump across her desk and slap her. I told her that i am going to ignore that comment for her benefit and told her for the record, it is both our decisions...not only his. I had asked her why did you feel the need to come out your mouth like that. She was like 'Oh i didn't mean it like that, i just meant that I want to get both of your opinions.' So i had brushed it off and I had asked her to show me some alternative flowers. So we kind of gottan back on track after that and she gave me a bouquet to show me what type of flowers would be included in the centerpiece (see pictures). Its a miniture sample of how the centerpieces would look. The centerpiece would have much more flowers, so this is really just a bouquet version of the centerpiece. The third picture would be the shape of the centerpiece.

I am kind of happy that i am going to see a sample of the other florist centerpiece (Apr. 25th) because after the way this woman had acted, i am not too sure about this florist anymore. So how do you like these types of flowers compared to the centerpieces in my photo album:

UPDATE:

Last week, i went to see the new florist's sameple , Diana Gould Ltd, with FH and his mother. They absolutely fell in love with the sample. I really liked it alot myself but i wanted to give the first florist (the one with the smart comment) a second chance. Well a couple of days ago, mother, FH and I went to the old florist to see the revised centerpiece. It was nice but not as nice as the new florist. My FH said that he detected an attitude from old florist and that she was acting as if she didn't want to be bothered. I had asked her a couple of questions about adding some height to the centerpieces but she kept saying that she is unable to do that with these flowers. I had also asked why the colors look so different compared to the one she had given me to take home and she made up some dumb excuse. The mango calli lillies that she had showed us, which are for the MOH bouquet, look very weak and the color doesn't match the persimmon color dress at all. So we made up our mind and are now going with Diana Gould. Amazingly, Diana's prices are cheaper compared to the old florist, Arcadia. The centerpiece is $15 cheaper. If I had known that before, i would have checked them out before going to Arcadia. So many people have told me that Arcadia is cheaper but i guess it really depends on the flowers. I had lost out on my $500 deposit, they said they can not give me a partial refund or do the bouquets. I would never recommend them to anyone. See below for Aracadia's revised centerpiece.
Kimbalina Posted:

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There are no pics

crazeee18 Posted:

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which florist???

deed766 Posted:

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I had uploaded the pictures in my album. I am going to see if i can resize them and add it in this thread because it is kind of pain to look in the album.

madseason Posted:

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wow - some people have no tact!

madseason Posted:

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i love those roses!

deed766 Posted:

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^Yeah, she really showed her horns yesterday. I am now debating on the nonrefundable deposit i had gave her a couple of months ago. If i like the other florist, i might have to forget about that deposit.

GiantsBride Posted:

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I really love the flowers... but the attitude would bother me too

mariaobride Posted:

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that really stinks why do people have to act like that. do you mind telling us the florists name ? if not I understand
kslmbuggie Posted:

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i think i like the 2nd one better as long as they make it fuller. If u dont mind losing your deposit I would def cut that florist off because she should not be giving u any attitude.





deed766 Posted:

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Thanks for uploading kslmbuggie! Yeah, i really don't want to lose $500 bucks but it looks like that is the way i might have to go. I am going to report this to Fountainhead because since its one of their in-house florists, they should take some of the damn blame.

KK Holiday Posted:

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oh no! i'm sorry you had to deal with a vendor with an attitude problem! thats the worst. but the flowers look pretty!

kslmbuggie Posted:

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or u can just have her do your personals so u dont lose your deposit, & get your centerpieces from the other florist.

Soon2BMrs.T Posted:

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Iam sorry that youare having this problem. Girl, Iwould just leave her with the deposit and go to another florist. Her attitude alone shows that she is not going to give you quality and when the wedding comes you are going to be disappointed. You only have one day. Just go with the other florist.

GinaBambina08 Posted:

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I really didn't like that lady's attitude...honestly, that would make me really uncomfortable working with her...you didn't make an unreasonable request at all! I went to flower michele like 3 times throwing out different ideas for centerpieces that i'm thinking about using and John was actually helping me and giving me more ideas! If I were you, i'd go to my RH about that and see if I could possibly get a new florist..that's just unacceptable to me...I don't know that's probably my sensitive area but I just have a serious problem with paying someone who is being disrespectful!

agraydc Posted:

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i like the new ones better and dont work with someone that you are not confident and comfortable with, it will add extra stress that you dont need

Jenn04 Posted:

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WOW Pretty pics!

I dont like the attitude either but would not want to lose the money. I would just stick it out if i were you. Who is it and does she have a good reputation?
deed766 Posted:

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For those, who inquired about the florist you got a pm.

I am going to call RH, as soon as i go on lunch today. If i like the new florist better (I will post pictures right after i see the sample), i am going to use them for the centerpieces and tell the old florist to just use the $500 deposit for the bouquets and the bouts.
Kerin2804 Posted:

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They are pretty - See if you can work w/ her to avoid losing your deposit.

jessica08bride Posted:

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i like the new ones better. I'm pretty sure this florist is also the same one im using, but i never had any problems with her. good luck at the other florist!

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