so I'm upset

Ant is going away overnight to Albany tomorrow. I dont mind him going away but he never goes anywhere without me. His old crappy unreliable friend contacted him after years of not talking and suddenly he's running off to Albany overnight. :(

Plus we're going through a rocky point in our relationship and i hate that stuff will feel unresolved while hes up hanging w his stupid jerk of a 'friend'

Im just sad :(

That's a bummer. Why did he decide to head out of town? Did you have any say in this?

I think you need to be upfront with him and let him know how you feel. And not be crying and irrational, but let him know how this makes you feel

He was invited to an alumni track event at the last minute and decided to go. I didnt like the way he suddenly told me. :(

We just talked it out after i got upset and its a bit better. Now his good friend josh is going too and i feel better. We're friendly w josh and his wife and im not mad hes running after the jerk friend who suckks.

I know time apart can be good. I just felt his throwing this at me on halloween weekend which is our thing sorta ruined it.

Hopefully he'll come back ina better frame of mind. But i bet he has an anxiety attack without me and im not waiting by the phone to talk him down.

im sorry sweetie! i hate when they run off during an uneasy time! its like you get that horrible feeling in your stomach and you can relax...

i swear i think all men at one point or another, give us grief!

my FH has been cranky lately and its making me nuts!

sorry you are going through this during such bad timing...you are our halloween queen!

here's to your FH returning from his quick trip with a new attitude