So my RSVP date is Jan 10th

Mdolph6 Posted: Jan 07, 2007 01:10 PM

So my RSVP date is Jan 10th

and we still have about 46 RSVPs that we did not get. I was thinking giving everyone until the 16th but after that should I make phone calls??

I was thinking just giving my mom a list (of her people) and FMIL a list (of her people) and have them call......

hayleyandsteve Posted: Jan 07, 2007 01:10 PM

Re: So my RSVP date is Jan 10th

Posted by Mdolph6

and we still have about 46 RSVPs that we did not get. I was thinking giving everyone until the 16th but after that should I make phone calls??

I was thinking just giving my mom a list (of her people) and FMIL a list (of her people) and have them call......

Yes, that sounds good!

MF9282 Posted: Jan 07, 2007 01:14 PM

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Sounds perfect. Just make sure you have time to get things organized for your own sake so your not stressing .

tricia3381 Posted: Jan 07, 2007 01:15 PM

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thats a good idea. also if any of the people are ur friends and u feel comfortable calling them, maybe you can take care of them.

Mdolph6 Posted: Jan 07, 2007 01:16 PM

Re: So my RSVP date is Jan 10th

Posted by tricia3381

thats a good idea. also if any of the people are ur friends and u feel comfortable calling them, maybe you can take care of them.

Yeah I planned on doing that....but everyone else the parents can call...

Future Mrs. Posted: Jan 07, 2007 01:17 PM

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id give it one more week unless you have to get back to the caterer sooner then that.

deirdre730 Posted: Jan 07, 2007 01:24 PM

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I am in the same boat. My RSVP date is 1/17/07 and I only have 64 response cards back out of 141 invitations sent out........what is that! I dont get it! When you get the invitation send it back, you know if you are going to go or not! And its a self-addressed envleope! I dont get it!!

JIFFY Posted: Jan 07, 2007 01:48 PM

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This is what I intend to do. Same as you- my responses will be due March 10th. They have until the 16th to respond. I have to make programs, menus, and all the other fun stuff. So when the 17th of March comes I am making calls and telling them that if I do not hear from them via email, phone, parcel post, donkey, or whatever by the 20th I am going to put them down as a no bc the Reception Hall needs a headcount.

I have many things to do and i'm not worrying about who is coming and who is not. I know it sounds mean but I think a month to RSVP is plenty of time.