SO NERVOUS-Please read. UPDATE NOW!!

We are about to leave to go drive out to Farmingville to meet our possible priest/officiant. Yes, that's correct, at 99 days to the wedding, we have not booked an officiant!!! This has gone round and round for many reasons, but let's just say that hopefully in a few hours, we will have booked an officiant!! I'm just nervous because we're not really religious now but FH and I were both raised Catholic, and have received sacraments up to confirmation. I grew up going to church every Sunday, however in our lives today we do not go to church or practice at all. My mom really wants a priest to marry us, so basically I'm doing this for her, and I'm just scared to have to go through pre-cana (which on the phone he said we may) and be judged, so on and so on. Oh btw we are getting married at the Royalton, not a church, so every Catholic priest so far will not marry us there. This priest came highly recommended by a friend who was just a bm in a wedding he officiated. She said he was awesome, and he was very cool on the phone. I'll be back to update later, I appreciate you guys reading. I know a lot of people are really religious on here, so I don't mean to offend anyone by this at all. Thanks guys.

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