so sad =(

so I'm sad to say, that 3 months before our wedding, we MAY be calling it off... I took FH to the Emergency Room on Sunday afternoon b/c he wasn't feeling well and well, we've been in ICU since then and he's in severe renal failure :( It has been the most trying and emotional thing that I've ever gone through in my life and not a day in my life did I imagine that at 26 years old I woul dhave a dr tell me that had we NOT gone to the dr when we did, he wouldn't be waking up next to me anymore :(

He received 6 blood transfusions, and 2 rounds of dialysis. Tomorrow they'll biopsy his kidney and tell us on Friday (which is EXACTLY 3 months to our wedding) what the plan of action will be.

Needless to say, he will be out of work (hopefully not indefinetley)... I need to take a leave of abscence from my job to care for him as well as transport him back & forth for dialysis and on top of that still pay our bills :(

Anyway, the moral of my story is not to make everyone sad... but just to remind you all.. live each day as if it's your last & ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS tell your loved one(s) that you love them and kiss them as much as you can.. Because until they almost arent there.. you DONT realize how much you really do need your partner.

You are both in my prayers!!!!!!!!!

I'm so sorry to hear this... is this a sudden thing or has he been suffering? Either way, you're both in my prayers. I couldn't imagine going thorugh something like this at our age. Stay strong, utilize your support system, you'll get through this!

I am so sorry for your guys

You are so in my prayers

I am so sorry that he is going through this. I am crying as I am writing this. I dont know what to say except. May God Bless you both and I am sending many prayers your way

I'm so sorry this is happening to your fiance.

I'll be praying for you and FH!!!

You're in my prayers

Oh sweetheart my heart goes out to you and FH... Prayers are def in order! He's a lucky man to have a strong woman by his side such as you...

i am so sorry!

Oh my gosh, this is so sad. My thoughts and prayers are with you

YOu just brought tears to my eyes..I am so sorry, I will keep you and FH in my prayers Maeghan

G-d Im so sorry !!! I will pray for you both!!!

Dialysis is not fun for anyone, but it's 100% effective for kidney failure. I'm so sorry you're going through this!

If he needs a kidney, will you find out if you're a match to donate? My mom's sister gave her a kidney a month after our wedding. It has been a long and complicated road (3 1/2 years on dialysis before the transplant) but she is finally able to eat a normal diet again and doesn't have to spend 12 hours a week hooked up to the dialysis machine.

If you have any questions about kidney 'stuff' please feel free to FM me.

I wish you all the strength you need right now and will keep you and your FH in my prayers.

i am so sorry you have to go through this right now...