so sad..

Im supposed to be getting married in about 6 month but now I'm afraid that there won't be a wedding.. We moved a couple of monts ago and we said that as long as I found a job before January everything would work out, I still haven't and it looks impossible. For everyday that goes the wedding seems more and more out of reach and I really don't know what to do. I need to get the money some how or just realize that it won't be a wedding and blow it off. :( I don't know what I wanted with this post, I suppose I just wanted to get it off my chest..

so sad..

Don't worry, keep looking and things will work out. Downsize your wedding if you need to, but maybe contact some recruiters who can help match you to a job.

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Aww I am sorry to hear this. Weddings are so expensive. I have been planning mines for almost 2 years now and still fear we won't be able to afford it. I hope you will be able to find a job soon.

Maybe consider postponing the wedding until later on in the year or next year? I know you probably have your heart set on your date but waiting some more time (especially if you haven't booked anything yet) won't be so bad. It will fly by and this way you won't have so much stress on you. Or like the other bride said, try down sizing and really budgeting every penny. Or you can always have a small ceremony and maybe dinner w/fam and close friends and then save the big party/reception for another time...?

You def have options, maybe some you'd rather not have to take but IF you can't get married in 6 months it doesn't mean you can't have the wedding you want eventually... good luck!

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Do you have a venue and vendors booked yet? Maybe see if you can push back your wedding date. That way you can save money and not have to cut back. Personally i would wait longer to have my dream wedding rather than have one I had to cut back on.

As for finding a job, try using indeed.com

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crashing here! but what do you do for a living?

and you have 6 months in suffolk county to cancel a wedding!

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So sorry to hear this. I hope things turn around for you. Worse comes to worse like the other girls said postpone it. Or do small now and save a big party for later. Good luck!

so sad..

What kind of work are you looking for? Jobs in certain fields are incredibly difficult. Have you considered waiting tables or grabbing shifts at Starbucks (I'd honestly love to work there)?