So upset - hate my dress

Went for my second fitting last night and left in tears...

At first it wouldn't zip up and silly me thought I actually lost weight... then it FINALLY zips up and i'm popping out of the top - and not in a sexy boobalicious way - but as in chicken wings and flesh...

the seamstress was telling me to just tuck and push everything into the dress - hate to tell her that I paid a lot of money so thay my boobs couldn't be pushed down . but that's neither here nor there, it was much too tight on top and may be in part to the fact that I had cups sewn in - they may have to come out... I had back fat like you would not believe - that is NOT the look I am going for by any means... my dress is just too tight and i'm so upset

I want to look breathtaking but want to be able to breathe!

sorry for the vent. I just don't know what to do. I started a diet last night and am really going to try to loose some poundage before the big day - but i only have 39 days to whip myself into shape... I'm absolutely distraught.

I am sure you will look beautiful. You can definetly lose a couple of pound from now till then, just stay motivated. Workout and eat healthy.

awww I'm so sorry! why did she sew cups in if your girls are already perked up? hehe I would take them out it makes such a huge difference.

In 39 days you can definetly lose quite a bit! I wouldn't worry. Why not try Weight Watchers? I did, It really works!! And it's not that restricting.

Good Luck, you will look beautiful no matter what!

Im sorrry you had a bad experience!!

Everything will be ok they will fix it!

Cant they take the cups out and loosen it a little. They cant expect you to suck in and be comfortable the whole day.

Lots of hugs!!

So sorry you had a bad fitting. Maybe it's bloat. And if it's not they can usually take the dress out a little. Maybe they can make a little more room for the girls.

Awwwwww I am sure you still have enough time to lose some weight. Plus it might not have looked horrible, may be it was your mood or something

Maybe you were bloated when you tried it on ?? But either way it sounds like you would only need to lose a couple of pounds which should be no problem. I'm sure everything will work out fine & you'll love it at your next fitting !

I'm so sorry! I know exactly how you feel because my dress didn't fit AT ALL when I went for my first fitting about 4.5 weeks before my wedding. (Check out my review on the review board..I was a wreck!!!) Drink lots and lots of water and exercise. It will all be okay, I promise!!!!

awh you poor girl I'm so afraid this is gonna happen to me too. It'll work out, it always does work out in the end as cheesey and annoying as that sounds right now.

just a question....did you get your boobs done before or after you ordered your dress? they didn't take that into consideration when you ordered?

sorry your dress isn't fitting right!

So sorry!!!! I agree with the ladies above - maybe for some reason you were bloated? If they take out the cups and take out the seams a bit, it will be perfect! Drink a lot of water, it will help!!!

the good thing is you started last night to eat healthy...alot of improvements can be done in a month! best of luck!!

I am sooooo sorry to hear this!

I can't imagine how you are feeling right now; this is the time that we ware supposed to feel so beautiful about ourselves and we are very emotional....

you said it is your second fitting - how was the first fitting? how did you fit in the gown that day?

maybe its just a few pounds and then you will look great in it!?

AWW!! I am so sorry you are upset! i honestly think everything is going to be fine!! I would def. take out the cups! you dont need them!your boobs will be plenty perky!

figure it this way, when i first saw the thread, i thought that you had a change of heart in liking your dress. atleast you still love your dress!

you can always shed some pounds.. drink lots of water and walk alot!! that will help.

also, no icecream between now and the wedding!

you will look fabulous on your wedding!

They should be able to take it out a little no????
I am so so sorry sweetie.. you have some time though!

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Posted by NinaChris07

I am sooooo sorry to hear this!

I can't imagine how you are feeling right now; this is the time that we ware supposed to feel so beautiful about ourselves and we are very emotional....

you said it is your second fitting - how was the first fitting? how did you fit in the gown that day?

maybe its just a few pounds and then you will look great in it!?

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at the first fitting it fit perfect, zipped right up. it was a little tight on top - but I'm broad and filled it out, but not like this...

I am sure that you will look gorgeous on your big day!! Breathe! First, have the seamstress take out the cups. That will give you a lot more room on top. Also, they can take out the dress a little, so why don't you try and start a weight loss plan and in 3 weeks see if you still need to have it taken out. Running definitely helps to slim you down fast. The WW Core plan cuts out bread and white flour which helps to drop pounds quickly but in a healthy way. You have a little bit over a month. I am sure that with the cups removed and a 5 pound loss would make a world of difference. Good luck! Don't stress [I know easier said than done!] You can do this!!

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I would have them take the cups out. It may make a big difference. I would just work out and really watch my salt intake. Go easy on carbs and you should be okay. I'm sorry that happened.