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So upset, I need you girls

Original post by Kris77

My friend Mikey called me last April. I was busy and told him I would call him back. It was such a beautiful day, I remember it like it was yesterday. We lost touch for a while after that, I never called him back, and he never called me again.

I asked my Fh if he heard from Mike lately, he said, 'You know what, Im gonna call him today to say whats up'.

Rob(FH) called him today, and his voice mail picked up. FH lef a message. Three mins later, FH cell rings, and it says Mikey on the caller ID. He answers, and it isnt Mike, its his Dad. FH says, Hello? Whats up Mikey. His Dad says, hi, this is Mr *^&*(, I am sorry to tell you this, but Mike passed away in December. He had a massive cerebral hemmorhage. My Fh was totally stunned. I havent stopped crying thinking about only if I would have called him back, I could have seen him again, we all could have hung out. FH asked what happened. Mike was at work, had a bad headache, and collapsed at work. Was rushed to the hospital, and died on the way.

I am really sorry to be so depressing, but please, everyone, stay in touch with people you care about. The wedding plans, the dj, flowers, dress etc, is never as important as the people in your life. Always make sure you keep up the relationships that mean something to you.

I know this is depressing, but after a bottle of wine, and thinking, I needed to vent. Im sorry to be such a downer.

God Bless you all, your friends, and family. May he watch over you all, always.
gina&ken Posted:

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hbradio Posted:

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Oh I am so sorry.... This was definitely a reality check for me. Thank you.
traceyd Posted:

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I'm so sorry to hear about your friend
takeoutcook Posted:

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please dont write that you shouldnt have posted this - the '05 group is so supportive and great that it's absolutely the right place to post this. We all rely on each other and want to help you right now in what must be a really difficult time.

I am so so sorry. If you need to talk, please don't hesitate to post or fm.

FutureAJ8505 Posted:

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I am so sorry for your loss.
Plese don't beat yourself up over it. I am sure your friend knew how much you loved him and that you were a great friend.
KimberlyBride Posted:

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So sorry for your loss...
germai68 Posted:

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I am so sorry for your loss. Don't beat yourself up though, it is very hard to stay in touch with all those that you care about. I am sure that he knew you loved him.

103005FallBride Posted:

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I had the same thing happen to a friend of mine. We had lost touch. He was an aspiring actor, who got a job traveling on the road doing shows. We eventually lost contact. After a while of trying to get in touch with him I found an old playhouse that he used to act with. I sent a random e-mail asking if anyone had spoken to him. I seriously doubted I would get a reply, but someone actually did. He said 'I'm not sure if you know this but 'Marco' was very sick and went blind!' I couldn't believe it. I asked that if he spoke to him again to let him know I was looking for him. About two months later this guy e-mails me back with the worst news...Marco had passed away. He forwarded a copy of his obit to me. I remember sitting in my chair at work thinking it was a cruel joke. It was amazing to read his obit and how he continued acting. He amazed me. It's still not real...
Kris77 is very right...don't get caught up in everyday things and not keep in touch with the people that matter the most.
Kris77, I have an idea how you feel and I'm sorry for your loss.
brooklynbridezilla Posted:

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Kris, I am so sorry!
Magooo221 Posted:

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I am so sorry for your loss. May the memories that you have of your friend keep him alive forever in your heart!!

Darcy Posted:

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I am so sorry.
alexlynn7 Posted:

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AnniesSS Posted:

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That's a terrible way to find out about the loss of your friend I'm so sorry for you. But remember, it wasn't your fault, but I understand how bad you feel not talking to him again. He's in a good place and will be there waiting for you I'm sure he'll give you an earful then

jimmysgrl Posted:

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OMG, I AM SO SORRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ladybug78 Posted:

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sarahthegreat Posted:

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Posted by Kris77

I should not have posted this here. No need to make everyone sad. Im sorry girls.



don't be sorry - its a way for everyone to appreiate what they have now. so sorry for your loss
JPC1125 Posted:

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Never feel apologetic for looking for comfort and to give some real life hard hitting advice to your 05 family!!!

Its a terrible thing to have regrets in your life but he passed on so suddenly that im sure even his family feels horrible not saying goodbye.

We all lose touch with friends over time and jobs and such but i would look back on the the times you spent together feeling grateful that you got to meet such a wonderful person

prayers and hugs coming your way
OctBride05 Posted:

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omg, I am so sorry.
MrsA814 Posted:

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i'm so sorry to hear that
mrswask Posted:

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Kristen - I am so sorry!!!

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