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So upset, I need you girls

Original post by Kris77

My friend Mikey called me last April. I was busy and told him I would call him back. It was such a beautiful day, I remember it like it was yesterday. We lost touch for a while after that, I never called him back, and he never called me again.

I asked my Fh if he heard from Mike lately, he said, 'You know what, Im gonna call him today to say whats up'.

Rob(FH) called him today, and his voice mail picked up. FH lef a message. Three mins later, FH cell rings, and it says Mikey on the caller ID. He answers, and it isnt Mike, its his Dad. FH says, Hello? Whats up Mikey. His Dad says, hi, this is Mr *^&*(, I am sorry to tell you this, but Mike passed away in December. He had a massive cerebral hemmorhage. My Fh was totally stunned. I havent stopped crying thinking about only if I would have called him back, I could have seen him again, we all could have hung out. FH asked what happened. Mike was at work, had a bad headache, and collapsed at work. Was rushed to the hospital, and died on the way.

I am really sorry to be so depressing, but please, everyone, stay in touch with people you care about. The wedding plans, the dj, flowers, dress etc, is never as important as the people in your life. Always make sure you keep up the relationships that mean something to you.

I know this is depressing, but after a bottle of wine, and thinking, I needed to vent. Im sorry to be such a downer.

God Bless you all, your friends, and family. May he watch over you all, always.
JacnRob729 Posted:

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I am so sorry....that is so devastating.....
Kim51103 Posted:

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So sorry
GoingNutty Posted:

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I am so sorry!!!
SummerBride2005 Posted:

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So sorry to hear the terrible news. Thank you for the reminder..sometimes we get so involved in this planning process that we forget the important things in life. Again, sorry sorry for your loss
luvsbob4603 Posted:

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krissI am so sorry for your loss! you can fm me anytime I lost two friends when i was in high school they were killed in a motorcycle accident i know its not the same but the pain i did feel than was painful and i till this day still think about them they were nice boys. my prayers are with you and his family!
Kris77 Posted:

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Hi Everyone,

Today is a better day. I have come to terms with the fact that he is gone, the funeral happened already, and all I can do now is remember him the way he was. To my 05 girls, thank you SO very much for being there for me. I cant describe how it feels to know there are people out there who have never met me, and care so much. You guys are the greatest.

angelbear217 Posted:

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I just read this now and I am so sorry for your loss. It truly brought to light how sometimes we take our friendships for granted. You have motivated me to contact people I haven't heard from in a while.

eric'sbride Posted:

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Posted by ckgmwedding


Posted by Kris77

I should not have posted this here. No need to make everyone sad. Im sorry girls.



Please don't say that. This is one of the most meaningful posts I have ever read on here. It puts it all in perspective. It's very sad but its reality and you needed us. I am glad you feel safe enough to post here. Remember we are here if you need.





My prayers go out to you. I am sure he knew how much you cared.

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