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Soo another friend blew it...

Jsquared279 Posted:

Soo another friend blew it...

And I know that my Maryland Shower is tomorrow. I was really hoping to be surprised this time since my NY shower was not a surprise what so ever. Do you know what is even worse? That my Mommy and sister are coming here from LI tonight and I have to pretend like I don't even know they are here. I can't see them at all tonight. I have to wait till the shower tomorrow and I have to act surprised again tomorrow.

Kinda bummed. I need motivation to act surprised. LOL!
evewedsjc Posted:

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motivation=PRESENTS..

Get happy girl!!!1
coldasice217 Posted:

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I'm sorry!!!! My shower isn't a surprise now either, so I know how much it s/ucks. Just try to think of the great gifts! I'm really not much help though, because I'm debating showing up an hour early so I'm sitting in the room as everyone gets there. SURPRISE!!!

megsher Posted:

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Have a blast!!!!!!!!! I don't do well with surprises, I need to prepare myself.

Gracie821 Posted:

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Motivation= seeing your mom and sister so happy to surprise you! It stinks that you know but it will still be a wonderful day!

MrsDtoBe09 Posted:

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Aww that stinks! Pick out something pretty for tomorrow!
gina409 Posted:

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motivation=== presents and cake!!!!! yummy

just think of walking in and seeing you boss in his drawers kissing your co worker that could give u a surprised look

sorry u r bummed but dont worry it will be a great time
flairforfashion Posted:

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Awwww so sorry but hey! You can wear something super cute!

Jsquared279 Posted:

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Hahaha thanks girls. Yes the outfit is a plus and the gifts and cake and friends and family are all very exciting. I am also glad I know my Mom and Sister are coming so the house and their guest room can be ***** and span. Thanks for helping me see the brighter side. MWAH!
littlepixie12 Posted:

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Posted by evewedsjc

motivation=PRESENTS..

Get happy girl!!!1



I was going to say that!
Jna2010 Posted:

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well at least youll look extra fabulous cuz you wont be caught off guard wearing hot sweats and a side ponytail with uggs lol (that happened to someone i know! and she was like )
MrsLarrea2B Posted:

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Posted by Jsquared279

And I know that my Maryland Shower is tomorrow. I was really hoping to be surprised this time since my NY shower was not a surprise what so ever. Do you know what is even worse? That my Mommy and sister are coming here from LI tonight and I have to pretend like I don't even know they are here. I can't see them at all tonight. I have to wait till the shower tomorrow and I have to act surprised again tomorrow.

Kinda bummed. I need motivation to act surprised. LOL!




OMG I am in the same boat

It ***** b.c now I will look like I am an 'ungrateful' brat.
Jsquared279 Posted:

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Posted by MrsLarrea2B


Posted by Jsquared279

And I know that my Maryland Shower is tomorrow. I was really hoping to be surprised this time since my NY shower was not a surprise what so ever. Do you know what is even worse? That my Mommy and sister are coming here from LI tonight and I have to pretend like I don't even know they are here. I can't see them at all tonight. I have to wait till the shower tomorrow and I have to act surprised again tomorrow.

Kinda bummed. I need motivation to act surprised. LOL!




OMG I am in the same boat

It ***** b.c now I will look like I am an 'ungrateful' brat.




Haha exactly. But I am supposed to 'Act' surprised tomorrow. So hopefully I can give a stellar performance. It is so much pressure and I know they are all gonna ask me well were you surprised and I am gonna have to lie lol!
Suzanner Posted:

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I'm so sorry that you won't be surprised, and even sorrier that your Mom and sister will be in town, and you won't be able to hang out!!

But I HAVE to say, Please DO lie, because everyone will be so upset if you know about it. I recently had an experience with a girl's shower, and she was just unhappy about the whole thing, and everyone had worked so hard on it. Sometimes, it's just best to lie so everyone else will feel happy too.

It all works out- you get celebrated and gifts, and they get the joy of throwing you a surprise party.

Everybody wins.

Have a GREAT time, and I hope it's just the best!!!
Jsquared279 Posted:

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Posted by Suzanner

I'm so sorry that you won't be surprised, and even sorrier that your Mom and sister will be in town, and you won't be able to hang out!!

But I HAVE to say, Please DO lie, because everyone will be so upset if you know about it. I recently had an experience with a girl's shower, and she was just unhappy about the whole thing, and everyone had worked so hard on it. Sometimes, it's just best to lie so everyone else will feel happy too.

It all works out- you get celebrated and gifts, and they get the joy of throwing you a surprise party.

Everybody wins.

Have a GREAT time, and I hope it's just the best!!!



Thanks babe! Great advice!
IrishBrideASmiling Posted:

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aww that stinks! Note to self...do not talk to any friends, family members, or anyone else who would be invited to my shower for the next few months! I really really want to be surprised so I know how you feel

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