So I'm on FH's computer and low and behold his email is open so I go to close and I notice an inbox message from Facebook saying that he has a message from this girl....his f'in' ex girlfriend. Now I am fuming and angry as hell. He didn't write back (I ended up checking facebook) but then notice that a few months ago was trying to make plans for a drink with this one co-worker girl....I am livid...w t f ........... wait till he gets home...heads will roll
Jna2010
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uh no!! yeah thats definitely NOT ok! but dont attack him cuz that def wont end up good at all, just bring it up (withoutscreaming lol), i'm sure it was nothing anyway
Lolablue34
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I would be soooooooooooo angry!!!
happychelle
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OK - calm down - it may be nothing. I agree, don't attack him - although it is going to be VERY hard not to. I went through something similar a few years back - FM me if you need some advice or want to talk further. Good luck
GR2010
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I am sure it is nothing but he should still have to explain...
20mrsc10
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ug fh tried this s*it a few years ago..it was early in our relationship and i was furious
MrsMartiniToBe
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Ughhh I would be so pissed too. Just try to approach him calmly lol.
MongieToBe
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Just ask him...may be nothing. Was it just the 2 of them (cuz that's a no no) or was it gonna be like a Happy Hour type tihng??
LatinaB2B
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Try not to go APESHYT on him. He may just have a reasonable explanation. I'd be pissed too. But hear him out before you chop his sh*t off.
I have been there - and it was an overreaction on my part...
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so FH and I talked....well I kinda had a calm apeshyt moment. re: ex gf, she's a massive byatch and she wrote on her account. FH did not write back and swore he didn't think about it twice.
re: the drinks girl...she is 40 and married. according to FH it was nothing and nothing ever happened. he claims it was one of those 'lets have a drink one day' things people say to each other. I was really upset and told him what I thought about the whole thing and he said he didn't think of it that way and that in his eyes it was not a big deal. He did apologize and said it would never happen because he didn't want to hurt my feelings. I believe him and to some extent this may have been me freakin' because of past 'baggage'. Regardless...i still wasn't happy about it and mostly it makes me HATE his ex even more....she is clearly a pathetic waste of space...enough said :)
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Posted by chrisandletizia
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so FH and I talked....well I kinda had a calm apeshyt moment. re: ex gf, she's a massive byatch and she wrote on her account. FH did not write back and swore he didn't think about it twice.
re: the drinks girl...she is 40 and married. according to FH it was nothing and nothing ever happened. he claims it was one of those 'lets have a drink one day' things people say to each other. I was really upset and told him what I thought about the whole thing and he said he didn't think of it that way and that in his eyes it was not a big deal. He did apologize and said it would never happen because he didn't want to hurt my feelings. I believe him and to some extent this may have been me freakin' because of past 'baggage'. Regardless...i still wasn't happy about it and mostly it makes me HATE his ex even more....she is clearly a pathetic waste of space...enough said :)
I had ongoing issues with FH's ex for the longessssttt time . She would CONTINOUSLY try to push herself into our life. I'd get so mad about it too Thank god she has since disappeared
