Sooooooooooooooo Frustrated!!!!!!! Update....

not even a little bit redic!!!
I asked for names over a year in advance, and made both sides give me an A, B, and C list!!!
You're a saint for waiting this long!

Oh I told FH same thing if he doesnt get me a list by Sat, his dad is going to have NOONE at the wedding!!! and i mean it. then I got called a bridezilla. ...righttttttttttttttttt!!!!!!!!

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Posted by aquag12283

I had the exact same thing with my FH. So I got frustrated and told him if he didn't get me addresses and names for the people he wanted to invite and his family members they were not being invited then since I was the only one doing anything. He got me his names and I asked FSIL for the families info. I know exactly what your going through. Hang in there!

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Not a huge update but I emailed FFIL today!!!!!! hopefully he will get me a list soon.

And another problem Im stressing out about is that FFIL will not want to walk FH down the aisle with FMIL bec they are divorced and dont get along! (in a Jewish ceremony both parents walk the bride and groom down aisle)

no im just assuming he wont want to but i actually received an email back n he said he would do it so woo hoo lol.

omg so wow 3 p0arents thats toughhhhhhhhh. is he that close with the steo mom???? what a tough situation. can you ask your rabbi if youre having one

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Posted by sjr385

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Posted by adelya21

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Not a huge update but I emailed FFIL today!!!!!! hopefully he will get me a list soon.

And another problem Im stressing out about is that FFIL will not want to walk FH down the aisle with FMIL bec they are divorced and dont get along! (in a Jewish ceremony both parents walk the bride and groom down aisle)

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Did your FFIL say something like that or are you just stressed that he might? He should realize that the day isn't about him. He doesn't have to talk to the woman... he just has to walk their son down the aisle with her.

I have the opposite problem (also a Jewish ceremony). FH has his mom, his dad, and the stepmom who basically raised him. They're all going to want to walk him down the aisle, he's going to want all of them, and they all get along fine. But I'm not sure how it's going to work with three parents and one groom.

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wow!!!!!!!!! people who dont plan dnt realize how stressful it is!!!!!!

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Posted by Panamasweet

Totally understandable. People take this list as a joke. My father calls me today to tell me he is adding 1 couple and 1 single person then i get a txt while i am still on the phone with him from my mother with their addresses......REALLY.....4 MONTHS BEFORE THE WEDDING.......

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Good luck getting it all together.....this stuff can be so frustrating